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Hi, I'm new to LPSG and didn't know until a week ago that my dick is larger than average, but not huge: 7.1" x 5.5"

Sorry, bit of a long story. Hopefully the pics make up for it (ruler/measuring tape is in cm)

At 43 years old I realise that's quite late to find out, but was never made aware bigger than average (had 2 serious relationships and 1 one night stand), but both girls had been with only 1 or 2 guys before me). Always thought that most porn actors have average size dicks and only some of them large. Shows how porn can skew one's idea of what is "normal".

Last week decided to try Tinder and needed to buy a condom. This is something I hadn't done in 16 years (since I was with the same girl for the last 16 years). I could remember that the last (and only time) I got condoms was before a one night stand before I met my ex. I remember I struggled to roll down the condom and couldn't roll it all the way down. I thought it was supposed to be a bit tight and that I just needed practise to roll down further.

So back to my Tinder date: I got myself some Durex condoms and thought they were regular size. But when I got home I saw that there was a size indication on the package: large, 56mm. Too big I thought, but decided to google what the correct condom size should have been and measured my penis... This indicated that I needed large condoms based on my 5.55" girth. Relieved that the condoms are the correct size I went on my Tinder date. We had a few drinks and she invited me to her place, making it obvious she wanted to have sex :). I put on the condom and it didn't feel too tight, but definitely not loose. I did feel that it still didn't roll down enough to the bottom of the shaft. The sex was amazing, started with foreplay and went down on her. She was dripping wet when I fucked her doggy style. She screamed like crazy and asked to "take a little break". That's when I saw she was bleeding and I was shocked. She said not to worry though and after cleaning up we fucked again, she was bleeding a bit again, but not so much.

What can I do to prevent this? A different position? I did feel something like a wall/barrier when I thrusted deep. I didn't have this issue with my exes and the one night stand many years ago.
 

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when I saw she was bleeding and I was shocked. She said not to worry though and after cleaning up we fucked again, she was bleeding a bit again, but not so much. What can I do to prevent this? A different position? I did feel something like a wall/barrier when I thrusted deep. I didn't have this issue with my exes and the one night stand many years ago.

A probable cause of bleeding would be menstruation. But don't look to us to solve this mystery. Consult your lady instead. She can answer your questions about her body's issues.
Welcome to lpsg NiekDutch.:sun: