Wow - am I ever glad to have found this site! I'm in the process of getting a divorce after 23 yeas of marriage. My soon to be ex was only about 5-1/2 inches long when erect and not much of any girth to speak of. I had a fling with a guy a few weeks ago who had a 9 incher and very thick. I've always been unsure about having a large one in me - thought it may hurt, but it was the most enjoyable experience I've ever had in my life. More power to all the well endowed guys!