Hi from New York

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  1. CAM4257

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    I've never done this kind of thing before, but I'm in the process of coming out - both to myself and everyone else - and, I don't know, it felt kind of liberating to make an account here.

    I don't think I'll ever be daring enough to upload a picture, but, who knows, first steps first.

    so hi all!
     
  2. Mickactual

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    Congratulations on Your liberation...and welcome!
    PS - there's nothing wrong with baby steps.
     
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    Welcome aboard. Baby steps.
     
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    cool. any info about you? cute chill fit hung guy here. nyc here too. let's meet in person!
     
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    Hey, you can handle it, most people are pretty accepting these days, except of course, the Government. Welcome
     
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    hey, I'm a recent college grad from Massachusetts, 22, I'd say I'm fit, I think I measure up fine to other guys in all, uh, relevant categories, haha. I'm stuck at home for the time being until law school next year, so I'm sort of reticent to go too all out with this stuff here.
     
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    <- New York.
     
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    You need to do nothing more than make some good friends here. I hope you make many.

    Welcome to LPSG.
     
  9. B_IFNOT4YOU

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    congratulations to you man, take all the time you need, it will work out fine.
     
  10. CAM4257

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    okay, so i took my first steps sooner than i thought i would. let me know what you think.
     
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    Go as far as you're comfortable.

    Welcome! :smile:
     
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    Welcome, enjoy the site and sites. One word of advice: I'm a native newyorker who came out at a very young age (quite a while ago). Remember the old saying: all that glitters is NOT gold. Whatever and with whomever you decide to get involved with, do it after careful consideration and reflection; not from being seduced, over-stimulated by or sucked into NYC's gay scene and its temptations toward instant gratification, sexual or otherwise.

    And don't feel that "coming out" necessarily means that you have to fit into any image or definition of what being "gay" is. It's easy for a young man to either slide into the world of downtown stereotypes and cliches on one hand, or even becoming some sort of self-denying DL, semi-closeted type on the other in reaction against it. Just be who you decide to be, not a definition of what gay is supposed to be. Most will tell you to "be yourself." I suggest that you "create yourself" according to who you decide to be.
     
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    Welcome to LPSG and best of luck
     
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    Where in N.Y. are you from?
     
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    I think I like Your idea of "baby steps".
    PS - what time should I come over?
    :wink:
     
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    Congratulations Cam! I'm new here too and was just having a browse around other intro posts. Yours made me smile, as did the warm responses to it (Bxmuscle's in particular). Though I'm not gay, I think lpsg is an amazing website to be part of and I definitely relate to the sense of liberation you get when you sign up (even if it is after a long wait, as in my case).

    Anyway.. Welcome, good luck and make sure you enjoy that incredible city over there! I spent a weekend in NYC a few years ago and had an amazing time. :smile:
     
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    thanks for all the positive feedback, I really appreciate it - and the advice too.

    I'm from the suburbs, north of the city.
     
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    Nice dick
     
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    Hi I think Bxmuscle gave one Fantastic response to this new member of LPSG. I hope because of great posts like the above one he will feel truly Welcome here on this site.

    *Hugs* Big Welcome I am also from NY. I joined this year and find this site to be great and informative so will you.
     
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    Hello Cam... great photos! Glad you're a member.
     
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