Hi! Im Gisella

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  1. Gisella

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    Hi Guys!

    First of all never mind my broken english...:wink:

    I decide to register because 2 weeks ago for my surprise i'had discovered that my guy i've been dating for 5 months is big...:eek: unbeliavable because he is not a tall guy or have big hands or foot...it was a nice surprise though...:tongue:

    But the problem is: I do love vaginal sex and penetration and seems we can not do that without pain...im naturally very very lubricated but still can't...i cant imagine to have to give up being fully penetrated "forever"....

    Thanks!!!
     
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    Welcome to the group, Gisella.
     
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    he is right, Gisella, very nice name indeed :smile:

    and his hints are well placed... you can calm down, I had similar problems with 20 (now I'm 35...) and I took my time, relaxed... and overcame that problem... the female body is built to adapt... think on all that in a positive way!

    and of course, WELCOME to this group!
     
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    Thank U EnglishMan:smile:

    I understand...but my pain is not because im tense because i lubricated i lot to acomodate him (nature is incredible!!!) :tongue: is that when i want to have all of him inside he hit my "ends" and than is painfull. Its everything pretty fantastic until i kind of force me to receive him...he is 9 inches...i think i can handle confortable only kind of 8 inches...

    i do really love him & not afraid of him...:biggrin1:
     
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    Thank U guys for the warm welcome!!! :wink:
     
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    Welcome. Knew another Giselle a few years ago[just a German friend].

    Think I know what you're talking about. My wife and I have only had vaginal sex a few times in the last 10 years. Problem, my size and her dryness but the oral sex has been great. Anyway we decided we had to get back into regular sex so tried again 4 nights ago with KY[I hate that stuff]. It hurt but managed a big O for her but without the mental support I fizzled and had to settle for oral again. Next day had lunch with our daughter who provided a lube she got from Supprise Parties called Supprise Pleasures[good stuff]. Tried it last night and wife enjoyed painless full penetation multi "O's". Unfornately I was still mentally detain.

    I also agree with EnglishGentleman about the tightening of the vaginal muscles due to pain or fear of. I think my wife experience that ever since our wedding night over 42 years ago.

    Hope I haven't over infoed you.

    Good luck and hang in there.



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    Thanks again EnglishGentleman :wink:

    I think the "problem" is me...:tongue: haha - because he keeps saying: dont raise your legs dont raise your legs..he tries to be gentle & he is such a wonderful man... but i want to have him all, as i used to enjoy a 6 or 7 inches - i have to be more careful with him for sure...:redface:

    The feeling is like you are a chocolate addict in a chocolate factory...:tongue: Oh my...

    Im going to research at the site for sure :wink:
     
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    Hi Gisella and welcome to the motley crew on LPSG.

    I think the English gent is pretty good on his diagnosis! Well done English Gentleman - you medically trained?

    A friendly bunch on here so enjoy!

    Cheers

    Del

    :smile:
     
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    Thanks Fow & Im happy for U and your wife !!! :smile:

    I much prefer vaginal sex then oral sex...:redface:
     
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    Thanks Del

    For sure English Gentleman is "the man" :wink:

    Cheers
     
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    Sorry, I answered before the last 3 or 4 post so was a little off track.

    Supprising how different women are. My wife, for instances, is a petit 4" 11" and a can't say that I ever bottomed out and I'm 8.5 x 6.25.

    Love and position will overcome. Good luck.


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    English Gentleman what do u mean by: "I rarely penetrate a woman "to the hilt" and it can make a guy feel a little hard done by... "

    Dont understand this feel little hard done expression...:confused:

    Thanks again
     
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    Gisella, our bella.
    These are words that go together wella,
    Our Gisella.

    Welcome to LPSG!
     
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    A Poet hmmm ? Nice! :tongue:

    Thanks Pecker :wink:
     
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    If you look remotely like Gisele you need to just dump your boyfriend and come fuck me instead.
     
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    Thanks again EG :wink:
     
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    Thanks Search!

    :smile:
     
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    Just now checking in. Welcome to the group Gisella. Haven't read all the comments. But in case no one has suggested this,check with your doctor. The doctor can tell you if you can learn to take that extra inch or whether you can't and techniquesto use fo your situation.
     
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    Thanks Freddie!

    For sure iam going to ask her...:wink:
     
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    I just have to update the actual situation from my first post:

    Eveything is working great and now im being fully penetrated without pain (only deep doggie a little pain but nothing like before) and have great time.

    Hang on everybody who has the same "problem" as that i did !!! But it was just to soon in my part to complain...silly me.

    Yupi! Things getting better and better just take your time and enjoy each other.:tongue: :wink:

    Thanks a lot !
     
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