Hi everyone! After being very interested in the site, I decided to join. I was just wondering if you would consider me big enough to be a member. Soft:: 4.25" soft & 5" girth. Hard:: 6.5" (7 &1/8" bone pressed) & 5.5" inch girth. I know I'm no Lex Steel, but would you consider me Kind-of big (& a good size)? or Average or small? Been wondering for quite some time. Thanks!