Yeah, so I sort of skipped right over this part and posted 134 times before even opening this thread! Hi, if we haven't met yet! I'm with TheBoyfriend and I'm very happy with him. We're monogamous. While I'm flattered, we aren't looking for hook-ups. I dislike dishonesty and deceit. I love mangos, blueberries, puppies, tea, and really good (read: expensive) scotch. According to TheBoyfriend, people from my hometown see me as alternative, very sexual, very liberal, and intellectual and the people where I live now see me as uptight, old-fashioned, and proper. The reality lies somewhere between. I'm in my 30s and that's as close as I'll ever come to telling you my age. TheBoyfriend is a little younger than me, but not young enough that I'm a cougar, with wide innocent eyes and a boy-next-door face that I think looks particularly sexy when he has a mischievous smile or he's in a wolfish mood. He's Clark Kent, if he had a dirty mind. I'm a smaller than average person. TheBoyfriend is a bigger than average person. Other than that difference, we're very well matched.