transformer_99 said:
Find someone you give a damn about, that way if you get knocked up, maybe making a go of it and raising the little spud might not be such a bad thing/experience and there might be a chance of having a family that is together longer than a few months ?
Hmmm... I second that, but guessing she is in her mid to late teens, I would say family planning is NOT a good idea. Kids do cause problem with time allocation and needs. Mind you, I know someone who is on my current course, shes around my age but she has a little son of her own, she studied on a course in art and had to give up because she became pregnut.
Not a bad thing or a good thing, but she had to stop half way through. Then there is the long sleepless nights and well, hearing what my sister and myself were like as kids... hmm, yeah, not what I am after.
The other thing is, when you loose your virginity to someone, do you want to remember a selfish person that you lost it to and was in it (excuse the laungrage) "to just have a fucking good time with anything that he can fuck on 2 legs then brag about it later" or someone who has a huge heart and respects you for who you are?
I'd choose the latter, probably explains why I have been single for soo long and still a virgin now!
EDIT: Transformer_99, do I see a BSD logo in your avatar?
EDIT2:
Originally Posted by Nina_Aguilar
whatever
it's kinda hard when everyone else is on your case about getting laid everyday
I know what you mean! Everyone pressurises you to loose your virginity at this young and navieve age. The truth is, do you want to follow them or be different? What worries me a lot about these people is that they think they got to do everything and have fun. The fact is, once they have had their fun, it becomes a bit more serious and then they think "why did I do it?".