lurker here. just want to thank all the core people of this forum. the advise, compassion, and intelligence is remarkable and amiable, and i appreciate it more than y'all can know. it seems being a lurker is an ungood thing. sorry i fill this description, but there are reasons. i am shy, i don't add to conversations unless i have something to say that hasn't been said, and i am often the person in a group conversation that just listens and interjects when necessary; an observer. i am also new to the whole forum thing. the more comfortable i get, the more i will post. that said, i will go back into the dark corner for a bit.