welcome girl Get Verified. will make your life much easier here... there are many ways... If ya wanna join the Real Ladies group... they verify all girls there to be REAL LADIES or you can do a Photo Verification ... or you can go in chat and cam with a few guys... word usually gets around fast on the real girls.
If ya ain't real, or won't verify, it's kinda hard to meet pple here (voice of experience talking)
have fun ....