dolf250 said:
Never had the problem, but the term for it is shy bladder syndrome. A quick google would probably lead you to more answers as to the cause and solutions than you are likley to find on this board.
Yes, and one of the causes of shy bladder is you may not have strong bladder contractions.
Some people when they get nervous piss on themselves. Other people freeze up and couldn't pee for a million dollars. Sometimes it is pschological.
I understand your main problem is not being able to pee. Not your boss seeing your penis. If it is the latter, just go ahead and let him see it and get it over with, so you can get about peeing when you need to.
It would be embarassing to not be able to pee and bursting and have to travel in a car with business associates or be in a meeting where getting up to leave would be in bad taste.
Simon Foundation might be a good place to start your research. Also google male sexual organs or reproductive system. Also urolology would be a good google word as well as shy bladder syndrome.
Good luck. If you have trouble figuring out how to access the information, pm me and I will help you find the information you need.
You might see a urologiest as well. There is a medication that helps strengthen bladder contractions to help empty the bladder when you want to empty it.
If the internet doesn't give you the answers, see a urologist. A wetting accident because you simply can't pee and then suddenly the muscles finally let go without warning would be extremely embarassing. And an over full bladder could damage the kidneys if the bladder got way, way to full.