I've never been very much of a hot commodity around women. I've always been nice and respectful, kind and considerate but in almost 30 years I've have never had a girlfriend and then at a friends wedding several weeks ago that all changed. After a fling (a very respectful and appreciative fling) at a wedding, I'm suddenly getting lots of attention from really attractive, fun, friendly successful women! (Keep in mind that these women have noting to do with the wedding which was in a completely different city.) I use Match.com and in the last 2 days I've got 7 winks, sent out 8 emails, recieved 6 responces and have 5 dates in the coming week. I even had a date yesterday with a girl I met on Match.com and it was like 4 hours from the first IM to meeting her in person ... and it was an AWESOME date! To add to that, during my date last night, I recieved 2 more winks from other women and the girl from the wedding was sening me elaborate text messages detailing what she wanted me to do to her and how turned on the thought of it was making her! I was laughing to myself thinkning "What the hell is going on!?" So does anyone have any advise on how to respectfully coordinate multiple women while trying to select one to focus my attention on? I'm hoping that things will naturally work themselves out, but I'm not used to this situation and I don't want to offend any of these girls becuase thus far they've all been fantastic!