High Sex Drives

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It is a blessing, however, it took me nearly 30 years to realize this. I used to think it was a curse to be horny all the time and think about sex so much.

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In my present circumstances, I finally see it as 100% blessing...but for most of my life, I felt that my extremely strong sex drive was more of a curse.
 

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I have been in both worlds. When I was in my twenties, I jacked off before I went to work and sometimes went to the bathroom and jacked off again while at work. And then again after work. On a good day there was time for another jack off session at bedtime. I was single then.

Now I have a spinal cord injury. The doctors were surprised that I could even get an erection. When they found out I could produce semen they were amazed.

Now, I really have to be in the mood and the setting just right. It really helps if I have looked at some porn here. And sadly, it doesn't happen very often. I still get a real thrill looking at the pics.

Having lived in both worlds though, I would pick having the super sex drive if there was always a place and time to take care of things. I vividly remember the family trip across the USA and no jack off sessions for a week. It was hell.

If I were in the army or for whatever reason I could not jack off, I would prefer to be like I am now.
 

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Many women that I know say, with some embarrassment, that they've been severely disappointed in the longevity of their toys, is this a common complaint?



ps- I like your smile...I always make it a point to tell someone, if I do.

Yes, I have noticed this too. My toys never did last very long.
 

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My wife is trying to be less apprehensive about sex hurting but a lifetime of family issues and nearly 33 years of painful intercourse it is hard for her to be enthusiastic sometimes. She is trying as hard as she knows how but after losing another week to a vaginal infection her dilation program has lapsed again.

She says that she just doesn't have as high a sex drive as I do, I hope that will improve if she can learn to relax and enjoy sex.

So having a higher sex drive has been difficult because she is sexy and desirable.

As I have stated before my fantasy is that she becomes a horny, sex craving woman and my nightmare is that I wouldn't be able to keep up with her.
 

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High sex drive... Its one of those things thats relative, I mean if you are both going hammer and tongs night and day then thats great, but it becomes a real pain if only one of you wants to do the hammering :)

I used to be more horny, I still jo 5 times a day if I am stressed even now, but as I have aged my orgasms have become more intense and more .. final. Three times a day is now normal. During sex, my orgasms are less intense and so allows for more, but until I started reading this site I had never heard of any woman being able to take that kind of attention, I have certainly never met any.

I figured its just the way I am, and thanks to a strong right hand grip, its not a problem!
 

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Many women that I know say, with some embarrassment, that they've been severely disappointed in the longevity of their toys, is this a common complaint?

I don't know if it's a common complaint or not, but I wore out the first 3 vibrators I owned, before switching to non-electrical toys.

It seems that all jelly-based dongs eventually break down and have to be thrown out, but I think that's the nature of the beast.

Glass dildos are very durable, though, as are higher-quality vibrators (at least the 2 I have right now have held up well, so far).

ps- I like your smile...I always make it a point to tell someone, if I do.

Thank you. :wink:
 

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Just wondering why people would consider a high sex drive to a curse. There could be different reasons. I find I sometimes can't even sleep because the nads are rumblin' but that's just me.
 

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I have a love hate relationship with my sex drive.

My life seems constantly pulled towards things of a sexual nature. It has in the past caused grief with my husband who is much more "normal" than I.

I like that i am sexually open and adventurous, I dont like ( sometimes) that I am SO very different from every other soccer mum I know.

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I have a love hate relationship with my sex drive.

My life seems constantly pulled towards things of a sexual nature. It has in the past caused grief with my husband who is much more "normal" than I.

I like that i am sexually open and adventurous, I dont like ( sometimes) that I am SO very different from every other soccer mum I know.

x
Honey

I have to be honest...

thats hot. I can definitely appreciate that, heh.
 

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I am 27, and am almost always ready to go. My parent were watching my kids yesterday which gave me and my wife a little time to ourselves after furniture shopping. We had full blown sex 5 times in 4 hours, and then once again this morning before the kids woke up.
 
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