I have hired escorts (female) to come to the house before. I never mention the money, just leave it on the table. I'd imagine getting busted in your own home is not really easy.
I'd certainly NOT go out to sobe and try and pick someone up. Nooooo way!
Indeed, hiring someone....impersonal, never see them again... just a fantasy, done.
having said that...perhaps it's one of those things that sounds great when your horned up, but after you've done it...it's not exactly a proud moment
,,,then again!!!!???
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