Nefertiti was not Tutankhamuns mother. His mother was another, more minor, Queen of Akhenaten called Kiya.
I'd still rather meet Nefertiti. If she looks anything like her bust, she must have been one of the most beautiful women in the world and she seems to have been most intelligent.
My heart has always gone out to Ankhesenamen. Her husband dead and she with no heir, reached out to the Hittites with whom Egypt had enjoyed good relations. She was alone and frightened, well aware that traitors had designs on the crowns of Egypt. Her letters to the Hittites reach through the thousands of years:
[FONT=Verdana, Tahoma, Arial]My husband has died, a son I have not. But to thee, they say, the sons are many. If thou wouldst give me one son of thine, he would become my husband. Never shall I pick out a servant of mine and make him my husband. I am afraid!
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The Hittites thought the letter a trick and sent an emissary who verified Queen Ankhesenamen's claim and brought another letter from her:
[FONT=Verdana, Tahoma, Arial]Why didst thou say they deceive me,' in that way? Had I a son, would I have written about my own and my countrys shame to a foreign land? Thou didst not believe me and hast even spoken thus to me! He who was my husband has died. A son I have not. Never shall I take a servant of mine and make him my husband! I have written to no other country, only to thee have I written. They say thy sons are many: so give me one son of thine! To me he will be husband, but in Egypt he will be king[/FONT]
Zannanza a prince of the King of the Hittites was sent to Egypt, but he never made it. At the Egyptian border his entourage was attacked and he was killed.
The servant Ankhesenamen speaks of, Ai, did later marry Ankhesenamen by force and right afterwards she disappears from the face of history, her throne usurped by Ai's first wife, Tey.
No trace of the heartbroken queen's tomb has ever been found.