Hit A Barrier In My Bum

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So the other day I hooked up with this 21 year old top. He’s tall, dark and handsome Puerto Rican. Initially I was sort of hesitant to hook up with him because of his age. I’m 29 (I know I’m old) but damn dude, he handled me so good, lowkey was one of the best hook ups I’ve had in years... bruhhh his D was amazingly gorgeous. Thick, long and with a huge freaking head just thinking of it gives me a WAP (Cardi B voice) and I want to hit him up again lol, but I’m not. Anyway. So, it was my first time hooking up with a guy with an above average winkus and it took me a while to get used to it again. So I finally got used to it and since we were doing it in my SUV which is a big older Yukon, it was sort of uncomfortable from the beginning but damn was that going to stop me. So anyway, we moved to the back seats and for the life of me I couldn’t figure out how to make the seats fold all the way down but they do recline. So I wasn’t able to bend over as well as I would have liked, so homie was nailing me doggy style and since I’m chubby, but hey chubby with a phatty. lol in order for him to go balls deep he wanted me to spread my butt checks... and omg when I did, I guess that’s when he was able to give me the fullll length of his big wenis. So when that happened I felt this really terrible feeling deep in my rectum, it’s like he was hitting a barrier, and I wanted him to stop, but since my momma ain’t raise no quitter I allowed him to keep going, but damn I just couldn’t take the pain. I was so mad at myself, because I know I’m able to take big ones. But it was unbearable so I had to tell him to not go so deep. So eventually I let my butt cheeks go and just let him hit it that ways ugh the pleasure I got from feeling his thick D inside of me rubbing against my prostate was soooo good, I almost came hands free, I was super wet tho.

So in my youth I had felt that same feeling of pain, but I guess after hooking up with tops with big Ds at the time it eventually went away. But now that I got used to smaller ones I guess it returned. Has anyone ever experienced this? It’s like they’re hitting a wall that just won’t budge and it pisses me off lol. I guess I have to get used to it again? It’s not a terrible pain, but enough for me to want the top to stop or not go so deep. Damn, it really made me miss taking a smaller one =/
 

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There is a 90°ish bend in your colon. It varies how far from the person’s hole it is. If your toy is long enough, you will hit that bend and it won’t feel good. With slow and careful practice, you can move the bend upward but I know nothing about that.
 

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In my experience my my body always reports penetration to a new depth as extreme pain. If I give in to the fear it is persistent. If I can be brave and ask him to pause and let my body adjust I can grow. I think of it this way, the sensation is new and my body isn't sure what it means or how to process it. In its confused state it sends pain (danger) warnings to my brain. My advice is to pause and let your body adjust when that happens, but try not to pull out. See him repeatedly without weeks in between and your body will evolve. I love taking it as deep as possible and I have performed a few "miracles."
 
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The internal anal sphincter is only around a half-inch or so in. Any serious act of penetration will involve navigating through it.
As he said, he was bent over in an unusual way.... If hes concerned, he should seek medical attention, not advise from a LPSG board.
 
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It's about allowing his penis to enter your sigmoid colon instead of hitting the back of your rectum.

If you choose positions where you have your knees closer to your chest and he aims towards your left shoulder(lying on your left shoulder may help) you will make it easier to pass. Don't force anything, take it slow. Better to practice with a thin flexible dildo.
 

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I'm guessing he was hitting the back of your rectum. In order for him to go deeper, you would have needed to change your position. I find laying on your left side and bring your right knee up closer to your chest will line up your 2nd hole. Once you get used to taking it through the 2nd hole, then it will be much easier. Just take it slow, use lots of lube, time and patience.