Hit on by man in the gym locker room, in an acceptable manner

[FleshFan69]

apparently. My focus was the mom's that would hit the gym early in the morning before work. The heat from the sauna worked wonders for blood flow & eye gazing when they thought I couldn't see them.

There's nothing like the optimal full flaccid hang when the temp is right...nice and heavy. And through the shorts there's a major flop quotient. I know what you mean about catching the gazing eyes...hehe. My "problem" is, is that I get hard quick when people look. My trips on the NYC subway are always stimulating. Of course, I always go commando 100% of the time.

 

[N68]

I was putting my shirt on and he walks a bit closer to me and was taking out his phone while asking me more personal questions, like he wanted to get my number.

Just curious. Do you think he was maybe taking a snapshot of you?

As my friends joke I'm maybe one of the last people on the planet without a smart phone, so I don't know how they work.

But I hear A LOT of stories of guys being taped without their consent.

Sounds like overall, it was a descent conversation.

I like hearing from a straight guy's perspective of being scoped out, without freaking out.


I'm posting in other threads semi related, I was always curious when the red light goes off in a straight dude's head... HMmm? Is he checking me out or is it just guy on guy admiration?

 

[igotthebigone]

There's nothing like the optimal full flaccid hang when the temp is right...nice and heavy. And through the shorts there's a major flop quotient. I know what you mean about catching the gazing eyes...hehe. My "problem" is, is that I get hard quick when people look. My trips on the NYC subway are always stimulating. Of course, I always go commando 100% of the time.

I'd love to be on the subway to see that

 

[N68]

There's nothing like the optimal full flaccid hang when the temp is right...nice and heavy. And through the shorts there's a major flop quotient. I know what you mean about catching the gazing eyes...hehe. My "problem" is, is that I get hard quick when people look. My trips on the NYC subway are always stimulating. Of course, I always go commando 100% of the time.

 

[lookn4horsehung]

OP if you think he was barking up the wrong tree you could subtlety mention your GF or ex GF in the conversation and he most likely realise your not interested. BTW it comes across you were very impressed by his body and mIght have seen you looking at it which may be the reason for hexample thought you might be interested in him.

BTW it comes across you were very impressed by his body and mIght have seen you looking at it which may be the reason for hexample thought you might be interested in him. Ya think? Oh and BTW U have a great dick, dude!

 

[someperson]

Means a very impressive physical specimen

yeah if you had you would not whine all the time I mean top tier don't whine like you do every 5 min

 

[ronin001]

There's nothing like the optimal full flaccid hang when the temp is right...nice and heavy. And through the shorts there's a major flop quotient. I know what you mean about catching the gazing eyes...hehe. My "problem" is, is that I get hard quick when people look. My trips on the NYC subway are always stimulating. Of course, I always go commando 100% of the time.

I was thinking about ditching the car for the summer and take the train / subway to work.
Thanks for the help, reminding me why stopped taking the MTA

 

[NCbear]

@sangheili90 .. This poster has some very keen observations and some valid questions .

I had actually gotten the impression from plenty of the OP's posts--and this is no slam on the OP--that the OP sometimes finds it difficult to understand (detect? pick up on?) the nuances of feelings. Which is why his impressions tend to be visual: It's like he's on the outside of the window looking in.

When I was younger and at my most traumatized from a variety of things going on in my immediate family (verbal, physical, and sexual abuse, crazy inconsistent behavior, and so forth), I felt very separated from the rest of the human race. In my case, it was because of the trauma, but I know other people feel similarly due to a spectrum of issues. The walk back to well-balanced reality, complete with those multivariable things called feelings, was long, slow, and difficult. In some ways, I'm still taking that walk.

So I somewhat empathize with the OP's apparent substitution of the emotional with the visual. That said, I'm also somewhat frustrated with his habitual visual objectifications (you see that in the "top tier" phrasing and in the repeated references to good-looking people in his posts). Humans aren't moving pictures; we're much more complicated than that. He's in his late twenties--he ought to have learned that by now, or so our culture expects.

To me, this also explains why his wording is often so clumsy, or so apparently cold/blunt/dispassionate/dismissive, that it invites offense: He honestly doesn't get some aspects of social behavior. Again, it's the on-the-outside-looking-in thing. He may not be able to understand other people's behavior because he can only see (understand? interpret?) the visual aspect. How many of us would understand another country's culture, let alone our own, if we could only observe it from a relative distance, not interacting with the people (or not fundamentally knowing how to interact with them)?

And now I wonder whether he's writhing in embarrassment, somewhere deep inside himself where he doesn't even want to recognize it, because I'm analyzing in a very public post the possible reasons for what I see as his apparent inability to fully understand others' emotions. Or will his reading my post be just an intellectual exercise, a visual interpretation of words on the screen, walled off in yet another way from those pesky, bothersome things called feelings?

NCbear (who, all that said, still sees the OP growing--slowly but surely--into a fuller, more nuanced understanding of many of the other people who share this planet with him--as his first post in this thread shows)

 

[FleshFan69]

I was thinking about ditching the car for the summer and take the train / subway to work.
Thanks for the help, reminding me why stopped taking the MTA

As you've successfully displayed, I'm fairly certain your mania has sod all to do with me and everything to do with you. And you're welcome, you've got my vote to keep you sequestered in a tonne or so of metal and glass.

 

[ronin001]

As you've successfully displayed, I'm fairly certain your mania has sod all to do with me and everything to do with you. And you're welcome, you've got my vote to keep you sequestered in a tonne or so of metal and glass.

Au contraire dear sir. It is not that I like being sequestered. I just hate the idea of being confined inside of a structure, surrounded by random people with their own agendas. People who beg for money, play the guitar; and or put on live skits, do so because they have captive audiences, those who cannot escape them. With the same breath I list pervs who enjoy crowds to touch / fondle and grind against the unsuspecting. Throw in the subway masturbators; and lets not forget the free-ballers who get excited if anyone looks at them

Thanks again for your vote; and enjoy your stimulation

 

[FleshFan69]

Well, here's hoping Elon Musk builds you that 4-wheel drive ivory tower to protect you from being "surrounded by random people with their own agendas", otherwise known as the rest of the human race. In the meantime, kindly resist the urge to use my posts for your own aggrandizement through insulting and marginalizing me. Surely, you of all people should understand that.

Au contraire dear sir. It is not that I like being sequestered. I just hate the idea of being confined inside of a structure, surrounded by random people with their own agendas. People who beg for money, play the guitar; and or put on live skits, do so because they have captive audiences, those who cannot escape them. With the same breath I list pervs who enjoy crowds to touch / fondle and grind against the unsuspecting. Throw in the subway masturbators; and lets not forget the free-ballers who get excited if anyone looks at them

Thanks again for your vote; and enjoy your stimulation

 

[sangheili90]

It was quite a long time ago when I made this thread, hard to believe.

I don't bother giving updates on old threads like this, but given how this somehow got revived I figured I'd fill some of you in. I still occasionally see this guy at the gym, maybe a couple times a month, and we are on friendly terms on an acquaintance level.

There are a handful of other guys at the gym I go to that are gay that I do speak with regularly when I see them. I don't hang out with them outside of that environment but I am on very friendly terms with them.

 

[ronin001]

Well, here's hoping Elon Musk builds you that 4-wheel drive ivory tower to protect you from being "surrounded by random people with their own agendas", otherwise known as the rest of the human race. In the meantime, kindly resist the urge to use my posts for your own aggrandizement through insulting and marginalizing me. Surely, you of all people should understand that.

Sorry, I am not financially sound enough to make such a purchase. Sadly I have to settle for something made in Bavaria; and how did you know the interior is actually ivory. But back to task. I have no problems with the human race. I am neither Xnophobic nor Anthropophobia . I simply detest stupidity. I admit I call you out on your post, a post where you profess to gleefully projecting your sexual fantasies, on the general public. I am a real New Yorker, not a wanna-be, not a transplant, not a hipster, not a yuppie, not a transitional student; or farm boy come to sow his wild Oates. I rode the subways daily for school and again for work, for more years than I can count. The subway ride was just a way to get from point A to point B, for me, with no hidden agenda, just like the other 99.95% of the riders

I have personally witnessed perversions, theft, mugging, domestic situations, child abuse, police brutality, chain snatching, purse snatching, pick pocketing, scam artists, fake homeless people and far more while on the trains One of the finest days of my commutes, a Perv was grinding on a substantially younger person, lets just say a few civic minded persons helped this perv / person off his feet; and onto the floor, then in the spirit is civic mindedness, a few of us assisted the gent back to his feet and escorted him gently off the train. Some of our sympathetic brother-in / sister-in passengers held the train car doors open for us as we delicately helped this person over to token booth, to report he had just had an accident

Since my comment struck a nerve; that made you defend your stance behind a barrage of big words, please do not be offended. I hold just as much contempt with young men wearing their pants low to show ff their underwear. Though I generally figure they are young and just too stupid to know any better. I do presume surely a person with your vocabulary should know better

 

[FleshFan69]

As in all things it is quality not quantity which counts. Whilst I'm sure you feel as though you've expressed deeply earnest and pertinent points with your lengthy retort let me assure you, you've done neither. What you have done, ironically, is publicly masturbate for three whole paragraphs.

What you did do was use me and my post for some ill-advised projection and insult. And that is not acceptable to me. And your feeble attempts to somehow connect my stating that I get aroused when someone stares at my crotch with perversion is both laughable and pitiable. And you're woefully inept at understanding what "gleefully projecting" is because it was not what was happening in the situation I wrote about but it seems that that is precisely what you are doing. And yes, you should detest stupidity but the work should start first in your own house.

And lastly, let me further assure you that I do not "stand behind a barrage of big words" to defend my stance. I stand WITH my command, respect and appreciation of the English language to state my points. I recommend you strive for the understanding that there are no big or small words in any language only their success or failure by those with big or small minds.

Sorry, I am not financially sound enough to make such a purchase. Sadly I have to settle for something made in Bavaria; and how did you know the interior is actually ivory. But back to task. I have no problems with the human race. I am neither Xnophobic nor Anthropophobia . I simply detest stupidity. I admit I call you out on your post, a post where you profess to gleefully projecting your sexual fantasies, on the general public. I am a real New Yorker, not a wanna-be, not a transplant, not a hipster, not a yuppie, not a transitional student; or farm boy come to sow his wild Oates. I rode the subways daily for school and again for work, for more years than I can count. The subway ride was just a way to get from point A to point B, for me, with no hidden agenda, just like the other 99.95% of the riders

I have personally witnessed perversions, theft, mugging, domestic situations, child abuse, police brutality, chain snatching, purse snatching, pick pocketing, scam artists, fake homeless people and far more while on the trains One of the finest days of my commutes, a Perv was grinding on a substantially younger person, lets just say a few civic minded persons helped this perv / person off his feet; and onto the floor, then in the spirit is civic mindedness, a few of us assisted the gent back to his feet and escorted him gently off the train. Some of our sympathetic brother-in / sister-in passengers held the train car doors open for us as we delicately helped this person over to token booth, to report he had just had an accident

Since my comment struck a nerve; that made you defend your stance behind a barrage of big words, please do not be offended. I hold just as much contempt with young men wearing their pants low to show ff their underwear. Though I generally figure they are young and just too stupid to know any better. I do presume surely a person with your vocabulary should know better

 

[ronin001]

As in all things it is quality not quantity which counts. Whilst I'm sure you feel as though you've expressed deeply earnest and pertinent points with your lengthy retort let me assure you, you've done neither. What you have done, ironically, is publicly masturbate for three whole paragraphs.

What you did do was use me and my post for some ill-advised projection and insult. And that is not acceptable to me. And your feeble attempts to somehow connect my stating that I get aroused when someone stares at my crotch with perversion is both laughable and pitiable. And you're woefully inept at understanding what "gleefully projecting" is because it was not what was happening in the situation I wrote about but it seems that that is precisely what you are doing. And yes, you should detest stupidity but the work should start first in your own house.

And lastly, let me further assure you that I do not "stand behind a barrage of big words" to defend my stance. I stand WITH my command, respect and appreciation of the English language to state my points. I recommend you strive for the understanding that there are no big or small words in any language only their success or failure by those with big or small minds.

Sadly when the light of day was cast on your posting; you felt you had to defend it. You could have let it go as a reply; but you chose to attack, so all well and good. You find my comment as a fellow subway rider unacceptable, all well and good. I found your posting of your intentional perversion in public spaces unacceptable. ( please do not make me quote the actual sentence )

You write well, you have an advanced command of the English language; but to a person like myself you are hardly impressive
That said, you say you are an angel, I say you are not. Let God judge us both

The end

 

[FleshFan69]

Sadly when the light of day was cast on your posting; you felt you had to defend it. You could have let it go as a reply; but you chose to attack, so all well and good. You find my comment as a fellow subway rider unacceptable, all well and good. I found your posting of your intentional perversion in public spaces unacceptable. ( please do not make me quote the actual sentence )

You write well, you have an advanced command of the English language; but to a person like myself you are hardly impressive
That said, you say you are an angel, I say you are not. Let God judge us both

The end

I think you do need to not only quote what I wrote but to equally comprehend its context. I'll admit to finding correspondence with you tedious at this point but I shall continue it if only to underline your facile, careless and insulting action. God may judge but you must take responsibility.

 

[Dave NoCal]

Guys, go find s room.

 

[ronin001]

I think you do need to not only quote what I wrote but to equally comprehend its context. I'll admit to finding correspondence with you tedious at this point but I shall continue it if only to underline your facile, careless and insulting action. God may judge but you must take responsibility.

You win, your ramblings, though lucid have only convinced my that my actions were indeed justified. I have renewed my parking agreement for the next year. Any person willing to argue his position on public erotic display, is someone I pray to stay far away from.

PS: the attention you so appreciatively crave, may be attention and stares from your disgusted fellow passengers. Sadly when ones ego dictated ones actions, reality can become obscured. As I am fond of quotes " For now we see through a glass, darkly "

Again, you win. Congratulations

 

[554279]

This argument clearly demonstrates why I utilize only minimal public transportation in the United States. I mainly use the air means and nothing else if possible beyond the rental bus from the airport.

However I should caution that when transiting airports in the US one most always be careful of the extra touchy TSA Agent and the odd senator or vice cops sticking their hands underneath the stalls.

Openly-covertly / inadvertent / accidentally on purpose "cock swinging" should be confined to nudists beaches, swingers meetings and dare I say other exhibitionist venues where adults only partake

This is why we hate the "Yankees"

 

[FleshFan69]

You win, your ramblings, though lucid have only convinced my that my actions were indeed justified. I have renewed my parking agreement for the next year. Any person willing to argue his position on public erotic display, is someone I pray to stay far away from.

PS: the attention you so appreciatively crave, may be attention and stares from your disgusted fellow passengers. Sadly when ones ego dictated ones actions, reality can become obscured. As I am fond of quotes " For now we see through a glass, darkly "

Again, you win. Congratulations

For an opportunist and a person of your ilk it was never a doubt that you would ever cease to feel justified. There have however been two things made exceedingly clear: that your cheeky insult will never fly with me and your responses have been sufficiently revelatory of both your limitations and your incapacity for lucidity.
I congratulate you on your purchase from the parking authority because you certainly won't be granted an EasyPass from me.

And, win? Indeed. Intelligence always wins even before the first parry.