Hiting the big 5-0 and beyond

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In my 70s the libido is still strong, the cock is not as hard as it once was without cialis and ejaculate non existent. Unfortunately my wife no longer wants sex so I need to seek men for occasional blow jobs to supplement my hand jobs. I enjoy the shared experiences on this site.
 

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Erections are harder to maintain and my cum is lessened and thin. But sex is still great at any age if you are up to it.
 

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At 53, I am fortunate to have a lady that is insatiable. I didn't think having sex every day at my age was in the cards. I don't always cum, but my cock is usually rock hard which gives her several orgasms each session. If we go a day without sex, my orgasm is incredible. Sometimes I lose my erection, but usually after I satisfy her. Most times, my staying power is much longer than it was when I was younger. One hour plus fuck sessions are not uncommon.
 

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I'm 66 now and the biggest difference with age for me is the amount of time and stimulation it takes to go from fully flaccid to fully erect. Up until twenty years ago my erections were virtually instantaneous and in a way I kinda miss that. But the slow process of taking several minutes to achieve a stiffy can be kinda fun in its own way. So I guess I have no complaints. No doubt one of the ED drugs would speed things UP (pun intended) but they're just too damned expensive.

Same here at 66 in the 110degree PS heat with something named
'levitra' once in a while to impress. Thanks to good health, exercise,
sun and fun with the stress lessened from my earlier career years
I feel and act better in form and function.
 

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I'm 57. I don't ejaculate anymore due to prostate surgery which left me with retrograde ejaculation (semen goes in the bladder). I miss seeing loads, but am otherwise unaffected.
I had a while where I was masturbating less. Then I started losing desire for sex.
I knocked back on the antidepressants, and am now coming 5-6 times a week.
Sex is as good as ever. She's good for 5 to my 1. My one has been continuing to intensify over the years. I have 20-25 muscle spasms per ejaculation, and the pleasure is out of this world. Erections aren't as strong or frequent as in my 20s, but the extra intensity of the orgasm makes up for it. Plus, my wife is more willing to do whatever it takes, to blow me away like I do her. We still want each other to be totally satisfied, and we are.
Lately, I have been working out more, putting on more muscle, and losing some weight. I'm sure that hasn't hurt any.
 

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I'm 57. I don't ejaculate anymore due to prostate surgery which left me with retrograde ejaculation (semen goes in the bladder). I miss seeing loads, but am otherwise unaffected.
I had a while where I was masturbating less. Then I started losing desire for sex.
I knocked back on the antidepressants, and am now coming 5-6 times a week.
Sex is as good as ever. She's good for 5 to my 1. My one has been continuing to intensify over the years. I have 20-25 muscle spasms per ejaculation, and the pleasure is out of this world. Erections aren't as strong or frequent as in my 20s, but the extra intensity of the orgasm makes up for it. Plus, my wife is more willing to do whatever it takes, to blow me away like I do her. We still want each other to be totally satisfied, and we are.
Lately, I have been working out more, putting on more muscle, and losing some weight. I'm sure that hasn't hurt any.

When I was on antiD's, celexa, it took my right hand off just to cum. AD's has an effect like this. Welbutrin has had no such side effects for me and I've been having normal orgasms.
Curious about your prostate situation, so when you have an orgasm, do you ejaculate at all or is it just "dry"?
Always wondered about this, as the prostate makes seminal fluid I believe.
Thanks for sharing.
 

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Turned the BIG 60 last month---still can't believe it but due to a rigid maintenance regime, I don't look it. The body hasn't morphed into something else and still edge every day and climax about twice a week. Three things the doctor told me. (1) My ears will grow larger.
(2) My nose will grow larger and (3) my dick will shrink even if I exercise him every day. So far only number three has occurred--20cms during my 20/30s and now 17cms. I'm single for the last 16 years.
 

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my libido is not what it used to be. I cum a little less, still shoot pretty good. have moderate ED at times. generally, use generic cialis as an ED aid.

wife has next to no sex drive anymore. she lubes up when we do have sex. sometimes complains that I'm too big. she still likes to get on top and ease me in slowly. it takes awhile longer, but she will get wet and cum pretty much like before, except there are no multiple orgasms. before I could leave her unable to walk or talk for 10 minutes, she would lay there moaning and quivering. and she is only interested in doing it once.

many times she doesn't want to fuck but will give me a long BJ and jerk me off.

been together for 35 yrs, and it certainly isn't like it was, but what the hell is like it was 35 yrs ago???

The best quote about this I heard came from "West Wing," when Jimmy Smits says to his wife, "Well, all I can say is that if after fifteen years you were full of AWE, I'd be full of SHOCK!"
 

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I'm 72, and sex feels just as good as it did when I was 32, except that now I value it more. I have no problem in getting a hard erection, and although my prostate is enlarged and my cum just oozes out, I'm grateful that it still works. I know I could have surgery to pee better and less often, but it could interfere with my three-nights-a-week fun, so I'm postponing it.

So for some of us, sex after 50 - or 70 - can be as good as ever.