hitting bottom on a girl

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hey, just to clarify, me and my friends use this expression for when you get all the way in a girl and you still have left over inches that can't fit inside the girl. Anyway, does anyone else here find that having a bigger dick can actually be less satisfying in bed since sometimes can be tougher, you can't get in all the way, blowjobs are often under par, and i've noticed i can't really "nail" a girl cuz it'll hurt her too much. What does anyone else who feels the same way do to make sex a little more... "worth while"?
 

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Some guys with big cocks sometimes are the envy of average guys as they have the big tool and so, by comparison, should be able to reach all the spots that their girlfriend or boyfriend would be not have been able to be well fucked with otherwise. The ironic thing is that some guy's dicks are actually too big to give their lover any pleasure to begin with, and instead give a lot of pain and discomfort in it's place and to the point that some guys I know wish they were actually average and not this well endowned piece they have that everyone seems to want and lust after.
My only advice is to take it easy, try different positions when you have sex and perhaps not put your cock all the way in on the first couple of thrusts, or perhaps even just fuck her with maybe just half or almost all of it but stop short of, eh, ramming it all in one hit.
 

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Easy in and continuing to take it easy will help eliminate the pain. Nice slow stroking can help.

I would suspect that over a period of time and lube you can enter and exit with plenty of pleasure for both you and her.
 

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hey, just to clarify, me and my friends use this expression for when you get all the way in a girl and you still have left over inches that can't fit inside the girl. Anyway, does anyone else here find that having a bigger dick can actually be less satisfying in bed since sometimes can be tougher, you can't get in all the way, blowjobs are often under par, and i've noticed i can't really "nail" a girl cuz it'll hurt her too much. What does anyone else who feels the same way do to make sex a little more... "worth while"?

Get her off orally first. She'll be wetter, more excited to take it, and more able to take it.
 
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Silentc makes a good point. You want to have the girl fully aroused in order for her vagina to really expand to the size of your tool. Deffinitely want to go slow at first...as if your penis is massaging her inside.
 

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Although it feels good to be completely inside a girl, it can also be very frustrating when you do hit bottom. Some chicks dig pain, but most don't appreciate a stiff hard cock pounding on the cervix. As a result, I've often had to hold back on my thrusts. However, for me it isn't as satisfying (although I still have an orgasm) or fulfilling (no pun intended).

An idea would be for the girl to grab on to the 'extra' inches. That way her hand blocks you from going to deep.
 

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You inadvertently point out a difference between natural and cut men. Watch some porn and you'll see the difference. The natural guy is usually not trying to bottom out because the sensitivity is where the foreskin is rolling and gliding.

The cut guy is knocking the chic's head against the furniture because he has to make up for the stolen parts by activating pressure receptors in the glans. He will often have a more banging or hammering style.

It's not all one or the other, but you can see the difference.
 

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You inadvertently point out a difference between natural and cut men. Watch some porn and you'll see the difference. The natural guy is usually not trying to bottom out because the sensitivity is where the foreskin is rolling and gliding.

The cut guy is knocking the chic's head against the furniture because he has to make up for the stolen parts by activating pressure receptors in the glans. He will often have a more banging or hammering style.

It's not all one or the other, but you can see the difference.

Wow, that's a great point. I never realized that or thought of it that way, but it seems true. I'm cut and like to pound ;-) I guess you learn something every day
 

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try the echo test: drop your keys when you ar enear her, and when you bend down to pick them up, with your head near her crotch,, yell something outloud... If there is an echo, then chances are you will fit.
 

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I like to have my cervix hit but not directly, like they are caressing it. its more visually stimulating when they are all the way inside instead of leaving a few inches out. But you have to be pretty long to manage that.
 

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ive never actually gotten in a woman completely. Lord knows ive tried. but women dont seem to be deep enough.
Does this mean you will be trying out the boys now? :frown1:


hey, just to clarify, me and my friends use this expression for when you get all the way in a girl and you still have left over inches that can't fit inside the girl. Anyway, does anyone else here find that having a bigger dick can actually be less satisfying in bed since sometimes can be tougher, you can't get in all the way, blowjobs are often under par, and i've noticed i can't really "nail" a girl cuz it'll hurt her too much. What does anyone else who feels the same way do to make sex a little more... "worth while"?
If sex for you isn't feeling worthwhile it has nothing to do with her pussy and more to do with you and how you feel about her. The biggest sex organ is not your cock it's your brain.
 

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Does this mean you will be trying out the boys now? :frown1:


If sex for you isn't feeling worthwhile it has nothing to do with her pussy and more to do with you and how you feel about her. The biggest sex organ is not your cock it's your brain.

THANK YOU!! I've been saying that for years!!!
 

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Does this mean you will be trying out the boys now? :frown1:


If sex for you isn't feeling worthwhile it has nothing to do with her pussy and more to do with you and how you feel about her. The biggest sex organ is not your cock it's your brain.

To misquote Cyrano de Bergerac, "My brain, sir, is enormous!"

The lady hits the nail on the head, as usual. You've got to be ok with yourself and the person you're with to make it worthwhile. For instance...NJ rocks me mentally :biggrin1: . Meg and and a couple of other smart, funny ladies just get my mental juices flowing because they are so obviously intelligent and funny. You have to find the thing that stimulates you about this person and make it the best thing in the world!
 

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you got to find a deeper hole

try this...

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If any of you big dicked fuckers can't find a cunt that's deep enough, email me. I've never had a dick I could not take all the way up my ass or down my throat.