Hitting bottom on a woman

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  1. dolph9plus

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    How many of you guys and ladies have had this happen to you..

    You get a BIG DICK man,,like me im 9-1/4th,,and you lay on your back,and he starts going,and he slides it in,and gives it a hard shove and POWWWWWW
    he hits your cervix..

    My last gf shoved me off with the strength of a Gorilla..Im 190 pounds and she made me bounce off her,,as she turned over on her side holding her
    vagina in pain..

    Has this happen to anyone else ?
     
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    This happens to me sometimes doggy style. I kind of like the feeling of bouncing off but the women say its like being punched in the balls is to a guy.
     
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    yeah, man. Its happened to me twice. Both with asian chicks coincidentally.
     
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    I am not porno-length, but I have hit bottom on all but a few ladies. I usually grab the base of my cock to stop from going all of the way in, or switch so they can get on top. That way if they make it hit bottom it is their own fault, and I can avoid getting yelled at! LOL
     
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    Yes, the cervix is typically forward and not quite at the end of the vagina. It is very sensitive, and if it is struck dead on it can be painful. However, if you slide your penis gently beyond that and slowly rock back and forth to massage it lightly, women generally find that quite enjoyable.

    I guess this is much analogous to how a woman's lightly caressing a man's genitals can be pleasurable, while her repeatedly kicking him as hard as possible in the testicles would not be.
     
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    What he said....

    My cervix is forever getting bumped. It's the angle of it and part of why I like the top so much, being on top it just slides out of the way and doesn't get popped at all. But laying down, I can only get about 6 inches of cock inside me before it hits cervix, unless I'm really hot, then it just kind of moves out of the way with no argument at all. Some serious good oral sex first always takes care of that issue.
     
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    Happens to me with the girls that I'm with all the time. It feels great for me, and they seem to like it as long as I get there gently. If I hit her hard all the way in there, not so much.
     
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    The speed and strength with which it is hit is definitely the key. If a guy gently bumps it I'm ok....if it's a constant pounding into it I will probably feel like I'm going to die and he'll probably get hit or pushed away rather quickly. I guess the key is to just be gentle until you know what the woman you're with can handle.
     
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    After my first girlfriend let me know that being jabbed deeply was anything but pleasurable, I've refrained from intentionally skewerring my partners--not that I haven't unintentionally gone too hard, too deep, from time to time. Sometimes the difference between exquisite pleasure and extreme pain can be measured in centimeters.
     
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    I've had this problem in the past. I'm 10 long and 7 1/4 around. I know exactly how much my current GF can take now and I don't fuck hard when I want all the way in. I find as long as I go slow I can get in all the way and not hurt her. She likes the feel my my dick on her cervix as long as it is very gentle. I'm guessing it's like a girl massaging your balls. Too hard an it hurts like hell, but a gentle rubbing feels damn good.
     
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    that happens with me and my gf quite a bit; she gets really horny, wants it really bad, and then forgets how big it is. So she'll sit down on it kind of quick, get it almost all the way in, and then pop back off like its a pogo stick with wide open eyes and a half pleasure, half pain moan. i love it.

    i take my time a bit more when i'm on top, or there might be a hole in the drywall from her trying to get away fast enough.
     
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    Let the woman decide how deep and hard she likes it, best way her on top.
     
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    My current gf is the only girl that I have ever had that can handle me impacting her cervix repeatedly. I actually was sore & even a little bruised the first time we made love, because she didn't complain a bit.... I am now the one that tries to be more careful...she's a keeper!
     
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    I was with a girlfriend when I hit bottom. She went home doubled over in pain.
    A few weeks later she made a joke about me having a little dick in front of people we both worked with. My comeback was "If its so small how you went home doubled over. As a result a couple of her girlfriends had to try me on for size and I was only too happy to oblige
     
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    ive been smacked a few times for this!!!
    :frown1:

    the ladies have to very warmed up..
     
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    ive been smacked a few times for this!!!
    :frown1:

    the ladies have to be very warmed up..
     
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    Lol yeah this has happened to me more than a couple of times. This is why foreplay is such a big thing for me. Most girls I'm told can take a guy after you played with them a bit and let there vagina "tent" and expand to it's full size. Now I say told because I've had sex before but I can't speak for the majority of women. I guess it's like how when a guy has a erection it goes to it's full size the same is for the vagina. The blood flow has to increase and it has to take a few to get to it's full size. Now I had the same problems you had a first but once I started paying attenion to foreplay alot more I found by the time I stick it in I have no problems. Still I do hit the cervix but the vagina is at max size so my thursting doesn't hit it has much. Also some girls like it if a guy bumps it slighty and gently massages it.
     
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    Yess, Asian girls,, are very shallow down there,,I find I have to short stroke them,,or they start puttin their hands on my abdomen to keep me from going to too deep..
     
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    See, thats weird, cuz my last gf always had trouble with her on top,and me in missionary,,doggy wasnt a problem..And the bumping of the cervix wasnt always bad with her,,if I went slow and it was a light tapping,,shed love it, but hard and fast and she'd toss me like a ragdoll off her,,and curl up..
     
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    Every girl is different, all our bodies are just unique in some way.

    I agree though, a light tapping or occasional light bump is good. Hard jab, intentional or not, can be a killer... that's when you just hold it and go slow for a bit to give her a chance to recover - if she didn't toss you off of her :rolleyes:
     
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