Hitting her cervix

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  1. Gamel

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    very often when having sex with my g/f i hit her cervix, so yesterday it happend again and my g/f asked my if that's bad, like what can it do if you hit it to much? can any of you girls tell me cause we really need to know before something bad happends
     
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    put some kind of donut around your shaft (at the base)
     
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    I would love to hear my wife say, ouch you hit my cervix - but she has a very long canal -
    Me...6.25 x 5.25
     
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    There have been other posts on this subject. 'Hitting the cervix' is a misleading term. The cervix is not at the deepest part of the vagina. If you insert a finger into her vagina (with your palm towards her clit) you will feel a round lump like a large nipple on the front wall of the vagina. The cervix is often nudged as the cock goes in. She may feel it, but it shouldn't be painful for her. When your cock goes in it slides past the cervix and then the vagina stretches beyond the cervix to accommodate your length. If your cock is a big one (and popular opinion says that it is), your g/f will need to be very aroused so that her vagina relaxes. It might be that sometimes the two of you have rushed things and you have 'bottomed out' in her vagina. That can be uncomfortable.

    Take more time over foreplay and let her suggest positions that make her feel most comfortable and allow her to stay in control of penetration. If she continues to experience twinges or jabs of pain she should be checked out by her doctor just in case she has a problem.
     
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    as with every activity in life, death can occur
     
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    I am going to invent a vulva extension - worn externally of course.

    "What's that in your pocket?"

    "Oh, it's just my vulva extension in case I get lucky tonight."

    $9.99 plus P&P.
     
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    Hey LP, Are you getting enough sleep these days? ;o)
     
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    hey riven thankz man... for the support
     
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    My wife loves for me to hit her cervix when we have sex. It takes a bit for her to be able to handle it but once she is warmed up she goes ape shit for it. On one occasion we had sex and I gave it to her pretty hard and she just so happened to have an exam a couple of days later and the doc told her to lay off the rough sex because her cervix looked bad or something (not an expert in the cervix), so my advice is take it slow and see what she can handle.

    Good luck.:biggrin1:
     
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    Lop off a little. That should solve your problem.
     
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    Thanks All for the help, I've taken it slow with my girl and we use much lube now, also i've taken more time on the foreplay and she really enjoys it... We've no complaints anymore...
     
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    Most of us know it's not actually our cervix and that our vaginal passage extends a little way past our cervix but we know men aren't going to know what we mean if we say I love having my fornix pounded :)
     
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    Yup, I sometimes call it my cervix when I'm really talking about my cervical bridge. I did some reading before I even learned what the difference between all those things is. Anyway, it's the bridge above and in front of my cervix that I love when he hits it.:tongue:
     
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    What does your girlfriend think about you hitting her cervix? Some women love it, and others hate it, so as for wheater it`s somthing you incorporate into sex with your girlfriend it depends on what she does or doesn`t like. If she is healthy there is no reason that I know of why something "bad" will happen.
     
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    I joined JUST so I could post this, but never got around to it...

    My widow was diagnosed with ovarian cancer a few weeks after I contacted her cervix during missionary sex (her only position, boring, but better than mary palm). Not that I caused anything to happen by that contact, it was just a discovery. We had never made contact that way before, not even during pregnancy. Our last sex was a month before that, and I thought I might have contacted it then, but not certain. Since she hadn't yet been diagnosed with cancer at that time, we thought it was odd but possibly normal. She liked hitting the cervix much more than anything else we had done. She passed away 4 years later.Seems her many cancer tumors were growing rapidly and pushing her cervix downward.

    So, if your partner seems to suddenly be getting shorter inside, maybe she could think about visiting an ObGyn for a smear AND a CA125 blood test.
     
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    No I don't care for the feeling...

    My ex was very long,we could'nt do certain positions because of that...

    I love a good girth,but not so much on length...

    (With some fava beans and a nice Chianti)

    He...He...He...
     
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    OK so maybe it's the bridge above my fornix? It's weird I'm still learning what all the stuff in there is but whatever it is there's this spot sorta on the top wall almost way in the back but not quite that's just :smile:, like that's what he sorta calls my magic spot. Anyway yeah I think it depends on the person some women. But I think if she likes it prolly don't worry about it??
     
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    Have always let the lady on top first to see how much she can take. Have always been told by the OBGYN 's of the ex's to be gentle in that area since I seem to have more then most. I have yet to have some enjoy me causing pain. The ex wife accommodated more then any other, I have just learned to live with out having her take it all except anally.
     
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    No pain - no gain... seriously; thats the cost of sporting a big dick.
     
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