hitting on straight guys

[dong20]

I've never hit on a straight guy before. Do they get mad?

Also, straight guys, are there ever any circumstances under which you would let a guy give you head?

Q1 :It's happened to me once or twice, though never in the UK. I wouldn't get mad unless it was persistent but that applies to any unwanted attention but it never gone that far.

Q2 :None that I can imagine.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

How about when a str8 guy hits on a gay guy. This does happen on occassion. While going to University, my str8 friend, his gal and I went out for drinks at the local pub.

she had to leave early and my friend later drove me home. Parked outside my parents home, he looked me in the eyes, held my hand, and said this was the first time he had ever wanted to kiss a man, meaning me. He told me he was attracted to my honesty, good looks, and the fact that we were close friends. I was feeling very uncomfortable, flattered yes, but what about his girlfriend I asked. He said this is different. He was totally committed to her and loved her. He had never kissed a man before and wanted to have the experience with me. I was sinking lower in my seat than ever. This guy was gorgeous and my closest friend. I gave him a closed mouth kiss on the cheek and told him he was sweet. It was never spoken about again.


And about anonymous blow jobs from guys: Is that not why we have glory holes in the mens washroom stalls?

I have to say, you handled that with class man.
I've been hit on by people I considered friends. Some turned out to be old trolls who wouldn't leave me alone. Flirting done with class is one thing. Blatant I want to (*&& you is something else. If it's done with great charm and class, I'll still say no but won't be offended. I can still be your friend too. I will joke and all kinds of stuff. Just accept my NOOOOOO

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

So are you now coming out of the closet about being a rapist? Do you fuck children too?

I find it insanely hilarious that you shitpackers are so horny for straight guys.. so much so that you pretend they are all gay on the inside.. more self vindication I suppose.

Sorry for interrupting your man on man action.

Ya know, that is mean spirited and out of line. That would be like a woman saying "you after little girls?" "you think all women want you when you are a (insert insult here)!"

A person is a person and should be treated with dignity and respect. I try to show everyone respect and treat them with dignity. Well, everyone but Amazoncongo. Have you seen his snake?

 

[VeeP]

Ya know, that is mean spirited and out of line. That would be like a woman saying "you after little girls?" "you think all women want you when you are a (insert insult here)!"

Thankfully that wingnut found his way to the door months ago.

 

[lellelind]

I've never hit on a straight guy before. Do they get mad?

If they get mad when you hit on them, you hit in the wrong way.
Let them think they are hiting on you...

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

I've never hit on a straight guy before. Do they get mad?

Also, straight guys, are there ever any circumstances under which you would let a guy give you head?

doesn't that second line almost count as hitting on straight guys?


Anyway... I've never been mad at getting hit on before. As a straight man, I encountered many women who are like this and it always perplexed me. Sometimes I feel like slapping these girls and telling them to get over themselves. To avoid being a hypocrite, if anyone pays me special attention I have to take it as a compliment. I've never become angry as a result, only slightly annoyed at some of the extremely persistent ones.

To answer your second question, I think there are plenty of "straight" guys out there who would accept blowjobs from other guys. This isn't considered "gay" by many and is therefore permissable. Myself personally, I'd probably rather just masturbate than get head from a guy. Same goes for women I'm not attracted to.

 

[MattBoyMA]

Straight guys willing to get blown by other guys - that's one of those things you hear about all the time, but I always sort of chalked it mostly up to urban-legendary fantasy. I'm sure it happens, but sometimes it feels like everyone knows some gay guy who has a stright-dude-blowjob story. I've never personally known any straight guy who's admitted to me doing that. Not that it's probably typical conversation, but still. 'Course... I'm not exactly any kind of audience for this question. Would I like to get a blowjob from a dude? Sure. Would I like to blow a straight guy? Sure, why not.

For the gay guys, let me flip it. Would you be upset if an aggressive straight woman hit on you? Would you accept a blowjob from a woman?

 

[B_Stronzo]

It's not an urban legend. I'm living proof.

To address the thread topic my answer is that I only hit on guys (or at least did when I wasn't in a commited relationship). I didn't make a distinction to whether or not they were wearing a rainbow t-shirt.

And I've been hit on by lots of aggressive straight women. I've not ever once been offended by it MattBoy.

 

[noface60]

I guess since i've reported that i'm over 50% straight, i qualify as straight. And i must say that
a) it would depend on the guy
b) I would never go through with it if I am cheating on someone.
c) I wouldn't make a big deal about it. I wouldn't be angry. Why would you need to get angry? Is it really so apalling that someone thought you were hott enough to ask out? All you have to do is politely decline.

 

[ABCB11]

Well, I've been hit on quite a few times by guys who others would have thought were "straight". When I hit on guys who others thing are str8 it's because:

a) I think they are hot
b) I think I stand a chance
c) I'm picking up some "less than 100% str8" vibes from them

And as a result I've scored with a lot of "str8" guys (who really aren't as str8 as they or others thought they were haha).

 

[phantom73]

If I know a guy is straight, I'm not going to hit on him as it's simply in poor taste. I've been with "straight" guys in the past; married and single. I'm openly gay...and they came to me. All of them said that they would've had no idea I was gay to begin with, and that was what attracted them after they found out.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

I dunno if its just me and the sort of straight friends I have but talk of man on man sexuality isnt rare and most of my mates are rather touchy-feely sorts. Maybe cos of that, I cant actually tell if am being hit on by another bloke (am percieved as straight,BTW) unless its extremely direct. I think someone else said it pretty well, "the reaction varies from person to person as well as the perception of what it is to be hit on".
To sum it up,am pretty tolerant and wouldnt be bothered if i was hit on by a gay guy,straight guy, straight girl,lesbian or bi-person. I like the attention as long as it isnt crass. I wouldnt hit on a straight guy,though. The outcome's too unpredictable.

p.s. what is an individual like SL65///AMG doing on a forum like this,pray tell?

Maybe he came to try and compensate for having a peanut brain and willy.

Your friends touchy feely? Sigh guys used to hug and put their arms around another buds shoulder. Now you do it, peeps cry sexual. blech give me a big ole bear hug any day of the week.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

You know why SL65///AMG was able to leave so quickly?...... He already had his shit packed. LOLOL

 

[phantom73]

That was a good one, Hootie.

 

[thedude111]

WOW! I HAVE TO ANSWER THIS ONE! I work construction. Mostly high dollar remodels in Palm Springs. For those that don't know about Palm Springs... it has a very HIGH gay population. Still a minority but still many around. Like during Mardi Gras...there are certain "gay" areas. Either way...no biggy. You get use to it, to a point. I have been in bars and had some drunk woman ask openly if she can suck my dick. Guess what? I was insulted and angry and felt cheapened by it. Anyone asking out of the blue to perform a sexual act on you. Has little repsect. I NEVER have heard a man....that barely knows a woman say... HEY can I eat your pussy out? not that it has never happened, and in jest I would hope. Tho' in poor taste. But YES gay men are VERY aggressive in that way. Go to a so called str8 blue collar working mans bar...listen to the stories of a str8 guy in a gay man..or mens home doing some job here or there. I have my stories too. Like being asked several times point blank out. After only being in thier home less then an hour. Or working on a ceiling next to a gay man that is at his computer watching and GROPING himself to Gay PORN. Or being in or near a room working. Where gay men knowing I can hear them...laughing and talking about..."man it has been so long since i sucked off a str8 guy". I am suppose to feel flattered over this? We had one gay guy in this bar I use to go to. We, meaning everyone that new him. Liked him. He was a real...FLAMER! but funny as hell and great all around guy. He was every gals best friend in there too. If anyone new came in and said something duragatory to or about him....he was shown the door...FAST! We men...in construction or what have you...in this area of the USA. Are so use to seeing and hearing so much from the gay community it is no big deal. I/we vote for gays...gay rights etc. But again it is all about RESPECT. I am not the type to sleep around with just any woman. And I am picky about women too. So...for either sex to come up to me and say... Hey! how about a BJ man? No way...no thx... And shame on you for having so little repect for me to even think I wanted one from you. Some men will take what-ever comes near them. Actually most men wont tho'. I hate the words, Honky, Nigger, Faggot etc. Respect me! You already have mine!

 

[davidjh7]

And you, dude, definately have my respect as well. And I would defend such a man to the hilt to have the right of respect, and choice in who you wanted to have, or not have, sex with. You are absolutely right about too many people, gay straight, male, female, not having repsect for other people--and then they get offended and nasty when they are turned down. IF after getting to know someone, and THEN doing some MUTUAL flirting to establish the POTENTIAL for something happening, and THEN it is done repsctfully, and with at least a bit of humor to defuse the always awkward moment, and the asked then politely declines without being an ass about it, then the asker has the OBLIGATION to repsect the other person's wishes, and accept it, and move on. You can't love everybody, and not everybody can love you. You aren't going to be appealing to everyone, and not everybody is going to be appealing to you. It is part of human attraction---deal with it people--most of the time it is NOT personal, even if you take it as such! Just think what kind of a world we would have if we each gave other people around us the most basic of human respect, which EVERYBODY deserves.

 

[matt42]

There was an episode on HBO's Entourage where a str8 dude (I think his character is named Kevin) was doing nice things for his str8 (former college football star) massage therapist. He bought him a present , was very complimentary about his skills as a football player, and invited him to a party. Anway, at one point, Kevin ended up in his hotel room for a massage because the spa area at the hotel closed before he got his massge. The therapist jumped into bed when Kevin went into the bathroom, he was all confused as he did this. You could tell that he wasn't sure if he should do it or not. When Kevin came out of the bathroom, he was shocked and embarassed. "I'm not gay, dude", or something like that. The therpaist said he wasn't either, but he would do it because it seemed so important to Kevin and he had been "so nice".

I found this story sorta hot even though it was fiction. The str8 massage therapist was willing to have sex with Kevin because Kevin had innocently flirted -- like friends sometimes do -- by telling another dude how good he is at something, trying to include him in your own social plans, smiling and having fun with him, and ending up in a ambiguous situation (i.e., alone in a hotel room).

I admit I had this situation on a business trip one time. My male co-worker (who was str8, married, and good looking) had spent a week with me at a seminar. We had a blast going out for drinks and doing some site seeing, etc. in the evenings. Our last night in the hotel room, he leaves the bathroom door half open when he was taking a shower before bed. It was one of those showers with a clear glass door, so I could see him totally naked in the shower -- a very LONG shower. I almost walked in and got in the shower with him -- but i chickened out. At bed time, i thought of getting a hard-on and making a joke about needing to beat-off after a week without -- but i chickened out. The massage guy had more balls than me, but he ended-up reading the signals wrong. It was still hot.

In the end, I think men (str8 ones, anyway) are wired to want sex all the time. If someone we like (female or male) sends us signals that they want to have sex with us, I think it can happen.

 

[Draconis71]

I've never hit on a straight guy before. Do they get mad?

Also, straight guys, are there ever any circumstances under which you would let a guy give you head?

Depending on the straight guy, and how you hit on him. The contant "try it, you don't know what you're missing" line and NOT getting the hint that the guy is far from interested is good enough to piss me off.

As for would you let a guy give you head.. No. Then again, I've had a few "straight" guys wanting to give me head. Frankly, I didn't believe they were straight and "don't usually do this". But, that's just my opion.
(Yes, I admit, I joke alot about being gay... usually just for shock value/reactions)

 

[Pattypablo308]

I think the straight guys here don't realize that recipication is not the prize when blowing a breeder. It's the excitement of having a guy, and who may be a little worried about having a guy hanging off his dick. That would be hot.

Hmmmm.....

 

[Pattypablo308]

Also, I have found that younger guys (especially in High School and early college) are less comfortable in their own skin. I wouldn't hit on a young guy (and it's legal, I'm only 21) unless they can show they are secure enough to take the compliment.

As for actually purposing anything sexual...well the thought is nice, and talking with him about it would be fabulous, I don't think I could be comfortable with that.