rob_just_rob
Sexy Member
How about this:
1. Gay guys, if you know a guy is straight, don't hit on him. If he was interested, he would already be gay. If you're not sure if he's straight, try to discreetly find out before hitting on him. If he says no to your proposition, move on.
(the last sentence can apply to straight guys hitting on women, too)
2. Straight guys, treat an unwelcome proposition from a man the same way you would treat an unwelcome proposition from a woman. This can be a polite "no, thanks", a "sorry, I don't swing that way" or whatever civil, nonconfrontational demurral (or little white lie - e.g. "I'm taken") you choose.
Personally, I try to take it as a compliment when someone I'm not interested in hits on me. It's not always easy, but I try.
1. Gay guys, if you know a guy is straight, don't hit on him. If he was interested, he would already be gay. If you're not sure if he's straight, try to discreetly find out before hitting on him. If he says no to your proposition, move on.
(the last sentence can apply to straight guys hitting on women, too)
2. Straight guys, treat an unwelcome proposition from a man the same way you would treat an unwelcome proposition from a woman. This can be a polite "no, thanks", a "sorry, I don't swing that way" or whatever civil, nonconfrontational demurral (or little white lie - e.g. "I'm taken") you choose.
Personally, I try to take it as a compliment when someone I'm not interested in hits on me. It's not always easy, but I try.