Hitting the spot

[D0D]

fingering vs. fucking : I feel like I can easily hit "the spot" when I am fingerings a girl , usually on the upper wall of her vaginal go palm up and middle finger all the way in curling the last didget/pushing up, and they tell me they love it. i feel like it is hard to be as exact and perfectly hit the spot with my penis which is obviously (mabey not, but for lack of a better phrase ) bigger and less targeted amoung other differences and therfore harder to find the right spot. my question is what advice do women have for guys trying to hit the right spot for them? or is not realistic to do with your penis what u do with your fingers?

 

[HiddenLacey]

Maybe let her take control, she'll find the spot and you can relax and watch..

 

[D0D]

that's a great suggestion! I want to make sure I don't become a pillow princess as well haha anything active I might be able to do or suggest?

 

[HiddenLacey]

You mean a starfish? Yeah, those belong in the water, not in the bedroom. I'm sure you can think of things to do with your hands to make the situation more interesting for both of you.