Hey all -- So wouldn't you know it? A few weeks before I'm slated to move, I meet a great, wonderful, super, perfect (all the good words you can think of) guy. Totally hot, wonderful personality. Basically, I'm falling for him pretty fast. Turns out he's HIV+ and I am, happily, HIV-, and don't want that status to change. Are there any guys on here in a mixed-status relationship? How do you negotiate the sex? I want to be intimate with him, really show my attraction, but reduce the risk to as little as possible (I suppose the only 100% risk free method is abstinence, but let's get real here). I think he's a great guy, and am not put off at all by his status. I just want to find a solution that works for us both, makes him feel sexual, and me feel safe. Sorry to ramble. This is sort of emotional for me.