Hello to all of you. I have to tell my story to someone...I am 29 years old and i have never had a relationship before. never met that special someone I wanted to have this. And it happened. We are together for almoust a year. I love him with all my hearth and he is really my soulmate. all this time we had sex without condom, doing together all possible things in sex.. he got sick went to doctor, and he is hiv positive.:frown1: He has hiv for some time, before me..but he didn't know it. I was sure i was to infected, it's not possible to fuck and... al this time and not to get infected, but yes i was tested now second time and I am hiv negative. Miracle! still dont understand this. O god.. my life turned around, i am broken. The only men i love and want in my life is positive.
We are fighting with this for over a month, he wanted to split.. he loves me so much, and won't allow for me to get in such a risk and get infected. Fear of loosing him and this pressure is killing us both. we tried, just a couple of days we were apart, got sick both of us ooo what a happines when we got together again, crying like a litle children. I can not imagine being without him. he has my soul everything.. we couldnt stand this anymore, so much passion between us and we had sex couple of times.. safe sex..trying to forget for a sec. like it's everything ok.. but it's not,again and again he fears by this and shuting down..
even before, when we didnt know this,we have a big big problem with trust, He has.. he can not believe he found me finaly love me so much, and that i dont want any other men. we are both very jelaus men, even that we dont have anything to be jelaus about, crazy i know. I really wasnt like this before, but with him yes. he is 10+ fantastic body, beautiful sexy men.. I think i don't know any men who doesn't want him.. every fucking day he gets guys offering him.. flirting with him.. it's hard watching that.. and I, i am just an avarage guy, nobody offers me anything hehe.. and irony is, he fears I will go with another men so much, ti was many situations when I said this is not normal, when fear gets over him and not believing the thrue.. point is we love eachother so much, as we are almoust obsessed by eachother. we both have such a strong fears loosing one another.and now his fear loosing me is even biger, he thinks i would go with "healthy" men living him behid.. and other side of him wants for me to be happy and healthy.. but I don't want anyone but him.
I love him so much... , I am not interested in any other guy, I just want him my love. And deep inside he knows that, he is just afraid and don't know what to do.. I told him I want to stay with him and have save sex even I am afraid to get hiv. Sometimes I think I love him more then myself, crazy.. he is that kind of a guy, keeping everything to himself, "everything is ok until... " and then brak down.. i am telling myself over and over.. what kind of person would I be, if I would leave my love in need because of sickness..then I see in my had the worst scenario.. i culd get hiv and even lose him over this- not trusting in me..
Thank you all for reading this.. if there is any psychiatrist, doctor on this site helping me by his opinion or anyone else.. thank you and sorry for my english
We are fighting with this for over a month, he wanted to split.. he loves me so much, and won't allow for me to get in such a risk and get infected. Fear of loosing him and this pressure is killing us both. we tried, just a couple of days we were apart, got sick both of us ooo what a happines when we got together again, crying like a litle children. I can not imagine being without him. he has my soul everything.. we couldnt stand this anymore, so much passion between us and we had sex couple of times.. safe sex..trying to forget for a sec. like it's everything ok.. but it's not,again and again he fears by this and shuting down..
even before, when we didnt know this,we have a big big problem with trust, He has.. he can not believe he found me finaly love me so much, and that i dont want any other men. we are both very jelaus men, even that we dont have anything to be jelaus about, crazy i know. I really wasnt like this before, but with him yes. he is 10+ fantastic body, beautiful sexy men.. I think i don't know any men who doesn't want him.. every fucking day he gets guys offering him.. flirting with him.. it's hard watching that.. and I, i am just an avarage guy, nobody offers me anything hehe.. and irony is, he fears I will go with another men so much, ti was many situations when I said this is not normal, when fear gets over him and not believing the thrue.. point is we love eachother so much, as we are almoust obsessed by eachother. we both have such a strong fears loosing one another.and now his fear loosing me is even biger, he thinks i would go with "healthy" men living him behid.. and other side of him wants for me to be happy and healthy.. but I don't want anyone but him.
I love him so much... , I am not interested in any other guy, I just want him my love. And deep inside he knows that, he is just afraid and don't know what to do.. I told him I want to stay with him and have save sex even I am afraid to get hiv. Sometimes I think I love him more then myself, crazy.. he is that kind of a guy, keeping everything to himself, "everything is ok until... " and then brak down.. i am telling myself over and over.. what kind of person would I be, if I would leave my love in need because of sickness..then I see in my had the worst scenario.. i culd get hiv and even lose him over this- not trusting in me..
Thank you all for reading this.. if there is any psychiatrist, doctor on this site helping me by his opinion or anyone else.. thank you and sorry for my english