Hmm. Gay or Straight?

[helgaleena]

Eunuch...:tongue:

Bi :240:

 

[DiscoBoy]

Why is (presumably) complimenting his dick and/or his body rude?

Flattery is so passé.

 

[maxcok]

Flattery is so passé.

You are so cute.

 

[DiscoBoy]

You are so cute.

Flattery is so passé.

You're boring me, Max.:wink:

 

[maxcok]

You're boring me, Max.:wink:

I'll bore you alright.

 

[B_curiousme01]

I think he was just giving you a compliment since you said he has never given you any indication that he wants something more than a gym-type of friendship from you. Although, if you do happen to have a vid, you might want to mention it in a "btw" when the time feels right... if he wants to see, then you'll know for sure.

 

[Stephenmass]

Even str8 guys (back in my supposed str8 days) will say things about another dick while changing, especially if it is much larger than usual. "Where do you put that thing?" or "Holy shit man, God was good to you", etc. No sexual overtones meant at all from these guys, just typical str8 guys that can't help but notice you've got quite a cock there usually in comparison with theirs, much larger.

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

Why is (presumably) complimenting his dick and/or his body rude?

It is not necessarily the act, it's the context in which it is done. What is it you are told when you are a child "never stare at people" - it just seems rude to me.

Might be different if he was showing his wares in a sex club but he was changing in a gym.

 

[maxcok]

It is not necessarily the act, it's the context in which it is done. What is it you are told when you are a child "never stare at people" - it just seems rude to me.

Might be different if he was showing his wares in a sex club but he was changing in a gym.

He wasn't staring:

. . . Just as I had stripped naked and was about to put on my jock strap, he came walking by at a brisk pace. Without stopping or slowing down, he looked over at me and quipped, "You should make movies."

And even if it were a lingering look, which it wasn't, who cares?

Put on the blinders now. Musn't look at the naked man. OMG, he has a dick? Don't look! Don't look!

This isn't about the OP, is it? It's about your paranoia that some guy might randomly check out your goods.

Yet inexplicably, you've started seven threads in the first 10 days you've been here asking people to look at your dick and comment, like this: Big Cock Lubed Up. I really don't understand this phenomenon, where guys plaster their cock all over the internet, but don't want anyone to see it IRL. It seems weirdly conflicted to me.

For craps sake, lighten up.

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

He wasn't staring:
And even if it were a lingering look, which it wasn't, who cares?

Put on the blinders now. Musn't look at the naked man. OMG, he has a dick? Don't look! Don't look!

This isn't about the OP, is it? It's about your paranoia that some guy might randomly check out your goods.

Yet inexplicably, you've started seven threads in the first 10 days you've been here asking people to look at your dick and comment, like this: Big Cock Lubed Up. I really don't understand this phenomenon, where guys plaster their cock all over the internet, but don't want anyone to see it IRL. It seems weirdly conflicted to me.

For craps sake, lighten up.

You're missing the whole point. It's just flew away over the top of your head.

 

[maxcok]

You're missing the whole point. It's just flew away over the top of your head.

Yeah, I don't think so, but thanks for the deep insight, n00b.

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

Why the hostility?

 

[340382]

What a compliment- any stares, glares or comments- a great compliment.

 

[haulthat]

Dude seriously? Look at ur cock. Thats why he said what he did, he could be gay, he could be straight, he could have just been impressed and had the balls to make a comment. Wasn't even an obscene one. If your cocks hanging out in the locker room and ur particularly packin, its a joke or a pat on the back at best.

To Maxcock... dude chill out sometimes. Here and now, in this place, on this site had that comment gone down... ya thats retarded. In a gym or public place that could easily be considered rude by people who were brought up that way.

To lecock80... do remember you are in this place, at this time, on this site... cause its all about guys with big dicks and some of them may be interested in other men and not in the friendly way. Bearing that in mind, they may have had bad experiences with homophobes in the past so if you aren't one maybe try just a tad not to seem it. False positives are a bitch, but they happen all the time.

EVERYONE PLAY NICE AND FUCK HARD! (VAG/ASS/MANLIPS whatever u like)

A few months ago I joined a new gym, since the one I had been going to announced it was closing at the end of the year. The manager of the new gym -- who is the one who signed me up when I joined -- is a guy in his mid-to-late 30's, handsome, but about 20 lbs overweight. He has always been reasonably friendly, speaking to me by name when we make eye contact, but nothing over the top. He has never acted in any way to suggest he is particularly interested in me, and I have always assumed without any thought that he is staright. My "gaydar" has certainly never gone off.

Yesterday, I was in the locker room changing. I was there at an odd time, and no one else was around. Just as I had stripped naked and was about to put on my jock strap, he came walking by at a brisk pace. Without stopping or slowing down, he looked over at me and quipped, "You should make movies." I suppose he could have meant westerns or historical dramas, but I doubt it. I called after him as he walked on, "How do you know I haven't?" I believe I heard him chuckle.

Would a straight guy say that?

 

[maxcok]

Why the hostility?

What hostility? I made an observation and stated my opinion about your read of the OP's situation - a read at odds with the casual offhand circumstances he described. You responded by telling me I missed the whole point, and it was way over my head. That's more than a little condescending, hence my sarcastic response.

If you can't handle opinions contrary to your own and some occasional sarcasm tossed in the mix, you might need to man up. This is a site for grown up talk, and you're bound to see a whole lot worse, and maybe even some actual hostility now and then. This was not that, not by a long shot.


p.s. To haulthat -- Thanks for being the ultimate arbiter and putting us all in our place.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

A few months ago I joined a new gym, since the one I had been going to announced it was closing at the end of the year. The manager of the new gym -- who is the one who signed me up when I joined -- is a guy in his mid-to-late 30's, handsome, but about 20 lbs overweight. He has always been reasonably friendly, speaking to me by name when we make eye contact, but nothing over the top. He has never acted in any way to suggest he is particularly interested in me, and I have always assumed without any thought that he is staright. My "gaydar" has certainly never gone off.

Yesterday, I was in the locker room changing. I was there at an odd time, and no one else was around. Just as I had stripped naked and was about to put on my jock strap, he came walking by at a brisk pace. Without stopping or slowing down, he looked over at me and quipped, "You should make movies." I suppose he could have meant westerns or historical dramas, but I doubt it. I called after him as he walked on, "How do you know I haven't?" I believe I heard him chuckle.

Would a straight guy say that?

I think the more important question should be "would a straight guy even talk to you in the first place"? It's my understanding that straight guys don't talk to any other men for fear of being perceived as gay. I thought this was common knowledge...especially on LPSG! :biggrin1:

 

[maxcok]

^Touche', Jon. LOL.

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

To lecock80... do remember you are in this place, at this time, on this site... cause its all about guys with big dicks and some of them may be interested in other men and not in the friendly way. Bearing that in mind, they may have had bad experiences with homophobes in the past so if you aren't one maybe try just a tad not to seem it. False positives are a bitch, but they happen all the time.

EVERYONE PLAY NICE AND FUCK HARD! (VAG/ASS/MANLIPS whatever u like)

I'm sorry I take real umbrage with that comment - I want you to tell me how the few words I've posted in this thread could be construed as homophobic. If someone has take. My two posts to anti-gay then it says more about them than it does me.
To me making a person that makes comment on a persons appearance, whether it be good or bad comments, without invite or without really knowing that person is a sign of a pass-remarkable person - something which I consider to be rude.

Having expressed that opinion I do not expect to be bracketed as a homophobe I would however expect someone to realise the difference between inviting comments, which I have clearly done by posting pictures, and not inviting comments when you are just changing in a locker room. To me the difference is distinct though it would appear that not all appreciate it.

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

What hostility? I made an observation and stated my opinion about your read of the OP's situation - a read at odds with the casual offhand circumstances he described. You responded by telling me I missed the whole point, and it was way over my head. That's more than a little condescending, hence my sarcastic response.

If you can't handle opinions contrary to your own and some occasional sarcasm tossed in the mix, you might need to man up. This is a site for grown up talk, and you're bound to see a whole lot worse, and maybe even some actual hostility now and then. This was not that, not by a long shot.

You're kidding right? You first of all try to call me a hypocrite and you then try to infer that my opinion is less than yours because I'm new to the site and you say that you're not being defensive?

I hope that my previous post clarifies my original point on the matter though I find if frustrating that it needed clarified.

I really couldn't care less if you were hostile or not I was merely trying to understand why you were hostile. It would seem that you have taken every one of my posts the wrong way and have been quick to attack for absolutely no reason.

 

[B_curiousme01]

It is not necessarily the act, it's the context in which it is done. What is it you are told when you are a child "never stare at people" - it just seems rude to me.

Might be different if he was showing his wares in a sex club but he was changing in a gym.

I have noticed from reading threads here that the guys locker room is quite a different place than the ladies. I think guys are just visual...and do the comparison thing without even realizing it.