Hmm...What To Do?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_ScaredLittleBoy, Mar 30, 2007.

  1. B_ScaredLittleBoy

    B_ScaredLittleBoy New Member

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    This is a really petty, simple, "problem". My mum's fiance's niece is really attractive. I like her and I think she likes me. We got to talking tonight and the way the conversation went, she told me she shagged this guy behind the bar...I SHOULD have said "oh so there's a chance for me then." :tongue: but I didn't.

    Anyway I don't have her number. She's in the pub at least every Friday night, maybe more. Should I ask my mum for her phone number? Or would that seem too forward/keen/desperate if I just text her asking when she was out or something?

    My mum might tell her fiance then (probably will) and itll be awkward...Or should I just wait til next Friday/in the week when I see her again? (We always look at each other etc).

    I want her. What should I do?
    This might seem teenagerish but I don't have much experience with girls...but moreso she's my mum's fiance's niece.

    Thanks!
     
  2. SpoiledPrincess

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    Wait until you see her, even though she's vaguely some sort of relative there's a protocol to giving out phone calls and you shouldn't give them out without the person's permission, if my mum gave someone my phone number I'd be pissed off with her. See her, offer her a drink then sit and chat with her. She'll let you know if she's interested.
     
  3. Gillette

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    What a great way to create possible tension between your mum and her fiance!

    You want her. Well that's deep.
    Honestly, if you're just looking for a shag, look elsewhere.
     
  4. dreamer20

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    I agree with SpoiledPrincess. Wait until you see her again in order to get her number.
     
  5. B_big dirigible

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    I'd wait until Friday.

    I'm not saying it'd be a good tactic, I'm just saying it's what I'd do.
     
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    Well, I think you are thinking with your dick, scaredlittleboy.:tongue:

    Normally, I am all for two people, who are attracted to each other, to get together and fuck each other's brains out.

    However, the fact that she is going to be related to you, in some indirect way, kinda makes my dick go limp. The whole "kissing-cousins" thing.

    There are a ton of women in the world, SLB. I think someone who looks like you do, can find another person.

    Good luck.
     
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