2 words... GENTLEMANLY CONFIDENT... That's what gets the "pussy" wet... And please, all this be nice stuff, sure for SOME girls yeah, but most attractive women in the city = Cocksure guys, egoists and the like all have chicks after them. I see these jackasses all the time pulling women; they might not be what you wanna bring home to yo Momma, but for every bit of "pussy" out there, they are calling you a "meal ticket," or a "solid fuck toy."
__IMO niceness is waaay overrated, esp if he's lookin for "pussy." Nice guys don't get much quick pussy, they are more suitors for a nice(r) girl and long winded convos... Find out what type of woman you want to pursue, and then adjust (if you can) your personality to suit her interest, needs etc... I'm not saying be a player/dawg, but then again a lotta good looking women like that edge, but you HAVE to exude CONFIDENCE, unstoppable confidence that radiates around you like an aura. They can pick up on these animalistic vibes...
I know a buddy I go hawkin' with, guy is SKINNY, I'm talking like 6'1 135lbs, dark as bakers chocolate, big lips, wears uber baggy, rapper/rockstar clothing, speaks in a broken French-African accent and he pulls so many stupid/naive/silly IVY LEAGUE women, bra you'd mock him in disbelief. Oh and he doesn't wear much deodorant either; being that he's French. This guy makes what everyone else is telling you in here about being "nice" seem like a farce. Thing is though, he's got unshakable confidence. I'm talking he gets women weekly, and not ugly ones either. Smart, attractive, white girls at that. Oh and BTW, he's ALWAYS talkin shit about how big he is.
Find YOUR game, your strengths, create a believable story behind it and set out ready to tell your story and paint these women a picture they want to hear... The "pussy" will hop in your lap if you play it right... If not, then work on being a more genuine person, learn to be affable, and approachable. See someone you like eying you... You've got less than 5 seconds to approach and make a move, or else the clock is against your window of opportunity. Just be yourself and be PASSIONATE about what you like. Women love passionate men, regardless of if they are talkin about video games, skateboarding, or watching your fav show. Just be passionate and they will vibe with it... :wink: