Holding off; When does it become too much

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  1. rough_neck_9_1

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    As of time of writing I haven't had an orgasm for over a week. I mean I've played around with myself for fun, but I've held back letting one fly. And the idea being to build up a big load to try to hit that explosive cum.

    But now its at the point where I keep thinking in my head, if I hold out longer it may bet even bigger. And so I'm caught in the conflict between saying fuck it, because it has been making me a bit cranky believe it or not, o just keep going as it will lead to a better result. Also I have the idea that if I can get a date between now and whenever I can by holding out that long when and if it gets to her touching my peepee I could put on a fantastic show.

    Anyway, so I suppose the question for discussion would be, when is this idea way past the point of reason? Or how far do you usually carry this idea?
     
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    i made it a week n i cracked on 7th day , i would say month is a point of reason
     
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    i thought it stopped making a difference after 4 days or so? but if you wait for a week and orgasm really quickly, you probably won't have as big of a load as if you waited for about 2 days and jacked off for about 15+ minutes before you orgasm...
     
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    After about four days any unused fluids are resorbed by the body, so beyond that you're not going to get increased loads. Plus regular ejaculation is good for the prostate gland, so I wouldn't advise holding off for too long.
     
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    I went a week, then had my date and it didn't seem that much more, but it did feel better than usual, probably because i had held off so long.
     
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    I'm also aware that there's a slight risk of not being able to ejactulate after prolonged abstinence of orgasm for males.
     
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    Sperm count and semen volume are at their maximum every 4 days. After that it don't much matter you won't cum more or harder.
     
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    Biggest cumloads are when you abstain from cumming 2 or 3 days (possibly 4?). After that, the extra fluid gets reabsorbed by the body.

    For me, if I cum on Monday, my next big load will be Thursday or Friday, especially if I "edge".
     
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    "edge"-ing is fantastic! I try and make a session last as long as possible sometimes i want to scream, but oh my god when I do finally let myself go I cum like a motherfucker! Way way jiz than usual! Oh my god its such a great exhausting feeling I just lie there and enjoy it for a bit before rushing to clean up. I'm getting all hot just thinking about it! My absolute favorite way to masturbate without a doubt!!!!
     
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    Actually guys the prostate and seminal fluid are not reabsorbed they are vented when we urinate. They are the source of all that foam we produce in the toilet. If you watch crime programs you find out they can tell who used the toilet male or female last by the presence of semen there or lack thereof. Female urine does not foam, observe that characteristic when you see where the toilet hasn't been flushed. Once the storage vessels are full any excess flows out. So holding back does nothing for volume though it may make the desire a bit stronger.
     
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    I'm sure there's no clinical data to support this idea, but I do remember my first orgasm as a kid around eleven. In that I never had a wet dream or played with myself until I came, but anyway when I did cum for the first time it was fucking massive, from my crotch to half way up my stomach. And I always thought it was because I never did blow a load for a good long while growing up.
     
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    I did'nt do it for 2 weeks.only difference was my cock was much harder than normal
     
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    Edging is great. I often do this and the orgasmsm are fucking fantastic! However, as others have stated after a few days the body begins to reabsorb the fluids so it might not make the load any larger but it might make the orgasm itself stronger.

    Edging doesn't make me cranky or anything. In fact, it does the opposite. I love feeling of the "energy" coursing through my body. It feels great when I'm overly horny. But that's just me. Others may feel differently.

    Simba
     
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    First I'd like to say I love your display photo rough_neck. I've totally forgotten the name of the reviews, Yahtzee rings a bell. Absolutely hilarious though.

    Personally, over a week is too much. Hell, over 4 days is too much; like you say it makes one a bit cranky. It feels great if you time it right though, really great. Everybody is probably different.

    What you do not want to do is hold it off during sex. Whenever I do that I find it hard to finish and genuinely get bored because it's so difficult to come back round again. :p
     
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    I cant hold off.

    I plan on not wanking until the end of the work for a better orgasm at the end, but I get to horny, and end up doing it at least 2 times a day.
     
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    I tried to hold off for four days once when I was on a business trip and my GF asked me to save it all for her. By the end of the trip I was constantly swollen and had some dripping into my pants. Coming under those circumstances was amazing.
     
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    I recently had to go two weeks due to being sick. My best friend (who a jack off with) came over and asked how I was feeling. After I said 100% better, we started looking at porn, then I gave him a handjob, after her came, he gave me one. It felt amazing, I was almost screaming. When I did cum, I never thought I would quit. It went everywhere.
     
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    On day two now. I plan on getting through the weekend without firing. I feel great after stroking for about :30-1hr without shooting - the energy is flowing all through my body. I love it!

    Simba
     
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