Holding your breath until you cum?

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  1. Lynx

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    OK, so maybe I am a bigtime freak but I would appreciate your thoughts on the below. Ive relatively recently noticed that when I am wanking, I have been inadvertantly holding my breath somewhere about halfway through up until I cum. I can still cum normally when I wank, but if I hold my breath, I cum much harder. Im very well aware of the autoerotic breath play fetish and I hope I havent fallen onto that particularly slippery slope! Does anyone else employ this method? I suppose its not good for my heart, but hopefully not too dangerous. Ideas, comments?
     
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    Most of the time I do hold my breath when I'm cumming... :rolleyes:
    If that makes me cum harder, well cool it is :smile:
     
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    i just tried it lol. yeah it did give me a harder come then expected.
     
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    Sounds like I should give it a shot. Or six.
     
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    i hold mine too... not consciously or anything.. just do
     
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    I hold my breath for like the last stroke or 2 then tense up eyes roll all the way back body starts to shake and I gasp and moan all at once. lol.
     
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    hehe that's really descriptive! haha
     
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    I find I hold my breath before orgasms as they are building. It's not something I think about, it just happens. If I breath, I have to build back up to it. If I am breathing, it's very short breaths. Just talking about it makes me want to.....
     
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    Talking to me?
     
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    Funny, all the tantra stuff says to take a deep breath so you dont cum. Maybe there is something to all of this.
     
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    I never done it before but I shall give it a try.
     
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    I've done this a number of times. I do find it an enhancement to masturbation, but a detraction from climax. It also stands to reason that if your muscles are starved of oxygen they are not going to perform so well, so when you're shooting your load the pulse isn't going to be the best.
     
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    see it sounds like than encourages fast orgasm... leading to being a 2 stroke joke. Plus, I am rather fond of the entire oxygen thing.
     
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    I hold my breath too, not on purpose, I just seem to need to.
     
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    Hello everyone, thank you for the replies. Its reassuring to know that several other members share similar experiences and that im not some crazy fetishist :)

    P.S. If you are a fetishist, please dont send hate mail; its all love!
     
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    I do the same thing! I think I picked it up from an ex who would take a long, deep breath and hold it when he was about to cum. For me it isn't an always thing, but, when it happens, makes the build up to an orgasm sooooo good and tingly. :08:


    I'm not a "fetishist", but will allow the right person to put his hand around my throat and give a nice squeeze. While the person does not choke me, there is a nice (for me) sensation of loss of breath and warmth that I enjoy - on occasion and, again, with the right person.
     
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    Oh! Very "shady" Lady :)
     
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    Wow, old thread. I do it. I'm not sure it is like you describe above. It leads to both a stronger orgasm and pushes me into orgasm, especially if I am having trouble cumming. BTW, my problem with cumming comes from cumming too much!

    Anyway, If I hold by breath for about 2 min while stimulating I can usually cum. I actually like to practice holding my breath as a turn on in it own.

    I have found with practice and various techniques I can hold my breath for a long time. So last weekend, after excessive cumming, I held my breath for 3 min and 55 sec for it to push me into an awesome orgasm.

    Do you guys hold as long or is the short breath holds enough?

    Not into asphyxiation though.
     
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    I do breath play with some of my sub boys. They have enormous orgasms too, sometimes.

    Can be special rubber hoods. Can be plastic bags. Favourite is putting a gasmask on them and then covering the air inlet with a rubber glove for 30 seconds or so.

    The panic moment just is extremely sexual, for most people, but obviously you do have to be careful and the sub should trust the Dom, and the Dom MUST behave responsibly.

    I myself nearly drowned once. I hope I didn't get an erection !!!
     
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