My holiday went well, I spent it with my family. The thing that saddens me is that my friends did not call me to tell me happy holidays. I am always the one that calls, emails and texts them to see what they are doing or is everything is ok. It really bothers me that do not think of me the way I think of them. I realize they have their own lives, but I want them to take time and say, "I am going to call my friend up to see how he is!." I was with my family and on Xmas Eve I did want to tell my friends, "Happy Holidays!" but I could not. I am a thinker and I really do not like to think negative things, but I think my friends are embarassed to be my friends. They only say they are my friends when we happen to drink together, or when they need something. When they do I always am a friend and help them out with out thinking, because they are my friends. From all this, what do you guys/ girls think I should do? I really love my friends and I would not want to lose them, but how do I tell them they need be honest with me?