HollyBlue

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  1. Belly_Dancer

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    The other evening, my soon-to-be ex-husband looked at me and said, “You know, you’re not Chrysalis anymore.”

    I’m forced to admit he’s right. I have broken out of the cocoon. My wings are still fragile, but I am a butterfly, and will get better and better at flying.

    I feel so strongly about this that I am changing identities on LPSG. I looked for butterfly names I liked, and out of those, looked for butterflies I thought were beautiful. I chose the “Holly Blue” butterfly (also known as Celastrina argiolus).

    So, my new username is HollyBlue.

    I hope this does not piss off the moderators.

    You may have noticed that I have taken Chrysalis’s gallery down. In a few minutes, HollyBlue’s gallery will go up. Some of the pictures are the same, some have been removed, and some are new. I want everyone to know that although your kind ratings and comments to Chrys have disappeared from LPSG along with her gallery, they have not disappeared from my heart.

    One last thing I want to clarify is that in announcing my freedom, I am not issuing an invitation. At this time, I am not looking for new sex partners or relationships. I am simply being honest about my life, so that I can continue to participate in LPSG genuinely, as the person I am now. I truly love it here, and I couldn’t continue to post candidly without revealing what is happening in my life.
     
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    Welcome to LPSG as a new butterfly. Sorry to hear about what is happening, but I applaud you for being positive about it all.

    Just a note, it's not going to piss us off that you have a new name. Just keep posting as HollyBlue and it's all good.
     
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    Holly,

    Glad you remain here in a new life. Thanks for sharing, and thanks for being around.

    LC
     
  4. agnslz

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    Welcome to you as HollyBlue! What a great name and reasoning behind choosing it as well!:smile:
     
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    First of all Holly Blue, congrats on the breaking out of ur cocoon, and being a beautiful butterfly. My question to you Holly Blue, why do u look so sad in you avatar pic?
     
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    HOlly,

    Though it is always sad to hear about an ending of things. I am so glad you are still going to be part of this insane family. YOu have our love and support. As for us getting mad... we only do that when you post from several personas at a time.
     
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    Welcome HollyBlue,we love having you here. :cool:
     
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    Sorry about your circumstances...gald you're here
     
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    Holly Blue--
    Relationships are hard. Grieve as long as it takes.
    Invisi
     
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    Thank you, everybody. Your supportive comments just show me once again what an awesome place this is.

    And I'm glad I didn't piss off the moderators. :wink:

    It didn't seem sad to me at full size, but at avatar size it does kind of look like I'm sad. I'll try another avatar of me blowing a kiss...it's a bit goofy, but at least it's not sad...:rolleyes:
     
  11. Well ... welcome to LPSG as a new & improved you :smile:
     
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    I haven't been here all that long, but I've found your musings on various subjects to be among the most insightful of those that I've read. I empathize with your confusion during this metamorphosis, but I'm truly relieved to hear that you'll continue to grace this forum with your thoughts and feelings. Best wishes to you as you spread those new wings of yours! :redface:
     
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    Hey Holly Blue I noticed that you changed your avatar. sorry about the post I thought the best picture of you have in your gallery is the one with you smiling.
    I think the most beutiful picture of a woman smiling. Keep your head up and hope thing go good from this point foward.
     
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    And as beautiful as your namesake, HollyBlue.
     
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    Honest, and wise.
     
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    I'm not shocked by this. But, I am genuinely sorry/sad to hear it. Many of us know how painful these things can be. Sometimes seeing a happy couple as you two appeared to present yourselves probably gave hope to the rest of us.

    I am, however, very confused right now as your profile says you are male. Are you ok?
     
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    Holly i see you flying allready. Flying off into a better life with a smile on your face:smile:
     
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    Glad to hear that you are going to stay with us. New names are always fun.
     
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    Renewed welcome.. HollyBlue.. You do not look sad in your Avatar .. you look gr8. let me take this chance to say that you have one of the best figure in the gallery...
    btw, one small observation why does your profile show you as male?

    "HollyBlue is
    Gender: Male
    90% Straight, 10% Gay"
     
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    Welcome to our midst in your new form. I feel certain you will continue to contribute to the forum in your usual insightful, wise, often witty manner. You are lovely as ever.
     
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