Holy Fuck! Risi Sims blowjob! This chick is HOT! Anymore vids of her ???

[RisiSimms]

This risi chick has my respect. I think for a 20 year old she's well smart...and very pretty

kudos to you

P.S no one knows me on this site as I am more of a lurker lol

As I have said before under other circumstances I would take the compliment as positive, but in this context it is kind of a slight to me because it means you took the time to view the porn.

I however can respect your intentions. You do not seem to mean any harm which is more than I can say for some of the people here, so thank you.

 

[novice_btm]

As I have said before under other circumstances I would take the compliment as positive, but in this context it is kind of a slight to me because it means you took the time to view the porn...

No, it doesn't. Since this thread keeps bumping to the top every 5 minutes, he could've wondered what all the fuss is about, and just Googled your name, and saw a pic of you. Or, even just viewed the one here in the thread.

YOU had a bad experience. That's more than totally clear, but it's not the experience of everyone. I think the danger that you're now running into is not whether or not people believe you are who you say that you are, but that you're beating people over the head with a preachiness that will cause them to tune you out. Moderation is the most effective approach. The porn industry is no angel, and I'm certainly not going to try to defend it, but while your experience was horrific, others have actually praised their experience. And the continued throwing of the "what if it was your sister" phrase, isn't working anymore either. While "personalization" is often an effective device, the fact of the matter is that an atrocious experience is just that, no matter who it happens to. I get what you're trying to do, but again, at some point, you start losing people for your cause when your over-statement of the issue callouses them.

 

[morhlien]

Risi,

We understand you had a bad experience and it sucks but people have bad experiences in many walks of life. Porn being a very large and successful business based off sex and as such, is bound to muddy the lines a bit. You were naive/got sucked in/etc.. but at some point you made the initial choice without doing the necessary investigation. The accountability still lies with you. I'm glad that you escaped your situation, as no human being should be forced to perform sex acts (amongst other things) against their will.

However, if you really want to escape it, put it out of your life completely. Chalk it upto a life experience and move on. Constantly revisiting the past and debating it with strangers probably won't help you move on. Clearly, you've learned form your situation and frankly, there is nothing more to learn on here or any other message board. If you really want to help, keep in touch with industry insiders and see if other girls are in your situation and perhaps you can help them get out. You posting on here is just noise that will be discarded shortly.

 

[Peter19]

Well, I told Risi I'd do this so here I am.

Had Risi pegged as one of those whinning little attention types, but she's got a legit beef and I think coming here posting helps her vent.

She didn't come across as some born again Christian type on a crusade to ban porn or as some bi-polar nut just a chick that's attractive and let herself get taken advantage of, but I'll tell ya if you think you're going to be the next one to take advantage of her you've got another thing coming. She'll never do porn again...that's for sure, and as bad a decision I think that is on her part if she is going to go do the bake cookies and raise 1.5 kids thing than so be it.

So, she's not too bad and I'll give her a break...although she did blow my world about Mr. Rogers, but that's a whole different story.

 

[simbaa]

No, it doesn't. Since this thread keeps bumping to the top every 5 minutes, he could've wondered what all the fuss is about, and just Googled your name, and saw a pic of you. Or, even just viewed the one here in the thread.

Spot on

 

[ZOS23xy]

I'm with Risisims....there are better things to discuss.

Bill Hicks said a lot of women in porn look like they've been drugged and pulled off the streets and promised more drugs if they co operate. Others say they all have this same hit over the head with a brick look.

I don't watch much porno. I find it interesting to read about (nerd that I am)...the emotional investment seems incredible.

 

[FRE]

Most self destruct for the same reason they became involved in porn. Usually mental illness or drug addiction.

However since you are gay I can offer this bit of info to you, more men working in the industry are happy and life what can be considered a fulfilling life than the females.

It may be that more men are happy working in the industry, but still some are destroyed by it. Consider John C. Holmes as an example. Be became involved with drugs and even became a dealer. He eventually died of complications of AIDS; I don't know whether he became infected through sex or drugs.

 

[ZOS23xy]

I dont know if this is just a bit too real for you to believe or what but you have a serious problem. I recommend you get some sort of help. Try and make some coherent arguments if you are going to try and challenge me on this. I have been using the internet since I was able to use a computer on my own. That has been about 13 years (age 7). I am not new to anything. If you know anything about me I am a very active member of the online community.

Numbers1234 is a character, somewhat inclined to be difficult, but often worth reading. He just has a streak of the incredulous installed in him.

I've got a small indicator program that often posts me stuff that shows up under my real name, which is googlewhack, as is my current screen name here. So I can monitor what is and isn't.

People have suggested that mangy alley cat get help. He just need excessive amount of catnip. And naked pictures.

 

[novice_btm]

Spot on

Well, "You said I was smart and pretty..." doesn't in any logical way, reach a conclusion of "...therefore you've contributed to my exploitation via your poor behaviour." And as I also stated above, porn and the porn industry, in and of themselves, aren't necessarily evil, based on the bad experiences of certain number of people. I mean, some pretty vicious stories exist about almost every industry. My dad spent a whole summer being beaten for "over-production", working in an auto factory, on and internship, when he was about the same age. People's lives are destroyed daily in generic corporate America. Again, NOT saying that the porn industry is a bed of roses, not by any stretch, but the point's have been made, and the some of the faulty logic and accusations being made here are over-done.

 

[novice_btm]

It may be that more men are happy working in the industry, but still some are destroyed by it. Consider John C. Holmes as an example. Be became involved with drugs and even became a dealer. He eventually died of complications of AIDS; I don't know whether he became infected through sex or drugs.

It's a fairly widely accepted theory that it was actually from IV drug use, but that's just what I've read, and seen on a couple of documentaries on him.

 

[Shelby]

Best wishes little lady.

Here's hoping your efforts keep someone else from having to endure such an ordeal.

 

[drumstyck]

As I have said before under other circumstances I would take the compliment as positive, but in this context it is kind of a slight to me because it means you took the time to view the porn.

look, you made the porn. period. you obviously regret it, but the fact is you went out to get some money or whatever, someone said "you should do porn", and instead of just walking away, you got yourself in some situation.

you did stuff, its gonna be on the internet forever. you might be able to wing some sort of Traci Lords thing and have the FBI raid anyone who is distributing your work, but since you dont seem to be willing to go after the guy, it wont happen.

so, live with the fact that people are gonna look at your stuff, people are gonna admire your stuff, people are gonna jerk off to your stuff. just accept it.

 

[RisiSimms]

look, you made the porn. period. you obviously regret it, but the fact is you went out to get some money or whatever, someone said "you should do porn", and instead of just walking away, you got yourself in some situation.

you did stuff, its gonna be on the internet forever. you might be able to wing some sort of Traci Lords thing and have the FBI raid anyone who is distributing your work, but since you dont seem to be willing to go after the guy, it wont happen.

so, live with the fact that people are gonna look at your stuff, people are gonna admire your stuff, people are gonna jerk off to your stuff. just accept it.

This is where you are wrong and do not get it. As I said for people who want to believe whatever they like they will not change their mind. What you are saying is something similar to "You died so obviously you wanted to die" sometimes people help you down that path without asking you what you want. After that point you just have to go with the flow of things. You do not know what I am currently in the process of doing and make too many assumptions.

 

[RisiSimms]

Best wishes little lady.

Here's hoping your efforts keep someone else from having to endure such an ordeal.

You seem to "Get It".

 

[kansan]

Risi, I don't know about LPSG guys, but statistically, the average American male (and probably the average forum dweller) has a dead end job and makes only 32,000 dollars a year, 2 kids, is 30 pounds overweight, never graduated from college, and has a wife who is similarly fat and desperate.

The average American guy is 35 years old, loves his kids and wife and never cheats on them, although he does have fantasies, starring beautiful young women like you that he sees on the internet.

If the average guy were single, he would latch onto any beautiful girl he could, because he knows they are out of his class.

The average American male has never mistreated or raped a woman or committed a major crime.

Many beautiful women find the average American male completely boring, and gravitate towards more exciting guys who often abuse them and cheat on them and treat them like crap. The average guy is appalled by this realizes that he is so boring that to these women, abuser and cheaters are somehow more attractive to women than thier boring selves.

A pretty woman like yourself could easily find some boring librarian or school teacher or mechanic that would be happy to support you for the rest of your life, but pretty young women like you often choose confident drug addicts or serial cheaters.

A pretty woman like yourself could easily make more money than the average lawyer simply by taking your clothes off in a strip club filled with lonely average guys who think they love you.

The average guy applies for a job with no skills and no college, and he will make minimum wage. The average beautiful girl with no skills and education can make double minimum working at the cosmetic counter at your local department store.

You have it made tight now, and you don't even know it.

You evidently made some bad choices. Don't let them ruin your life.

 

[3151]

All the best to you Risi.... a bit of advice. I know you wanted to comment, any maybe one comment without all the back and forth would have been better FOR YOU then what this has become.

At this point, this would not be a 13 page thread with over 9000+ views (as of this writing) It would be yet another thread of a person giving a BJ. I know it will never be that for you, but at this point it would be 5 pages back and not #1 on the link list.

Read my comments here. I am supportive of you and defend you. A few days back I challenged the others who were being nasty.... "give her the benefit of the doubt... Imagine if this was YOUR sister."

 

[RisiSimms]

Risi, I don't know about LPSG guys, but statistically, the average American male (and probably the average forum dweller) has a dead end job and makes only 32,000 dollars a year, 2 kids, is 30 pounds overweight, never graduated from college, and has a wife who is similarly fat and desperate.

>> My husband is 6'7"ish about 250-280lbs. Has a great career and is an ex-boxer.

The average American guy is 35 years old, loves his kids and wife and never cheats on them, although he does have fantasies, starring beautiful young women like you that he sees on the internet.

If the average guy were single, he would latch onto any beautiful girl he could, because he knows they are out of his class.

The average American male has never mistreated or raped a woman or committed a major crime.

Many beautiful women find the average American male completely boring, and gravitate towards more exciting guys who often abuse them and cheat on them and treat them like crap. The average guy is appalled by this realizes that he is so boring that to these women, abuser and cheaters are somehow more attractive to women than thier boring selves.

>> My husband is neither boring, abusive, or a cheater. He is a loyal and loving person who dedicates all of his time to living life with me. He is able to keep me entertained and shares many of my interests. He and I neither one use drugs or smoke. He doesn't drink heavily and neither do I. He is attractive to me because he doesn't care what I look like. He is more interested in just enjoying life with me.

A pretty woman like yourself could easily find some boring librarian or school teacher or mechanic that would be happy to support you for the rest of your life, but pretty young women like you often choose confident drug addicts or serial cheaters.

>> My husband is confident and that is nice. He always encourages me to do whatever I like. He is the reason I go to school. As for his career (not just a job or a dead end) he works hard and his reward is a loving and loyal wife.

A pretty woman like yourself could easily make more money than the average lawyer simply by taking your clothes off in a strip club filled with lonely average guys who think they love you.

>> You statement is not true. The expectation is not that you will just take your clothing off. Doing this results in someone feeling they have been cheated and causes serious problems. Their is a reason why they have bouncers at strip clubs. The expectations are higher and the personal cost is much higher as well. Having some disrespectful pig sweating and slobbering over you is revolting. Remember when a FAN (short for Fanatatic) takes interest it is dangerous and notoriety has a cost as well. I have had many of these "average guys" try to pick me up (assuming I am a whore who is into everyone I meet) and several men have even tried to harm me when I told them I was not interested. The violent reactions of rejected, often delusional and/or bitter and angry men are not worth any amount of money.

The average guy applies for a job with no skills and no college, and he will make minimum wage. The average beautiful girl with no skills and education can make double minimum working at the cosmetic counter at your local department store.

>> The average guy who is willing to work hard can match that working construction. The average pay for a 1st year construction worker is $15-25/hr. If he is willing to work hard he will be paid well and also get rid of some of those 30lbs you talked about earlier.

You have it made right now, and you don't even know it.

>> You assume I do not know how easily I could have made a million selling myself to strangers? I am perfectly aware of that. If you actually read everything I wrote you would know I am very aware. SEVERAL ISSUES most of you seem to not UNDERSTAND are as follows: I did not like what I was doing (emotionally or physically). I was physically not built for sexual intercourse (I am too small). I do not care about the money, fame, or attention.

Sine you are so eager to make $$$ and think it is a great opportunity I am letting salip by... Tell you what let me sell you to strangers. I can promise them anal sex with you for $200-1000 a pop. I know it might hurt but grin and bear it act like you enjoy it. It will be over soon and you'll get that check which is sometimes suspiciously marked down $800 less than agreed. No worries if we can book you at 6 times a day that is some good money, right? I will take between 40-60% as your agent, and you will not get any residuals or royalties no matter how profitable your content is. Nevermind the fact that the people hiring you are shooting in an area that is not legal for shooting porn, or that I am not licensed to work as a booking agent in porn, or the fact that the tickets you purchased for your services across state line for production of sexual content is breaking several federal laws and changes the nature of your employment to "prostitution". We can still make you a star... I will make sure your work is spread everywhere so that your family, and friends can see it too. You will get recognized on the streets for your great work and followed all day by someone who looks like they could easily be your father or grandfather. They might even come up to you and whisper in your ear that they know who you are and cant wait to try you out. How would you figure that this is having it made? Would you whore yourself if you knew you had it made like this? Would you do something that hurts you for $$$? I am out of the business not because I wasn't able to be used... I am out because the money I could have had did not out-weight the damage working in that industry does to me physically, emotionally, socially and spiritually.

>> Now to the real reason I have it made... I have it made because I am married to a great guy, and will be raising a family with him one day. I have a loving and supportive family that has welcomed me back into their lives and who are as excited about my future as I am.

You evidently made some bad choices. Don't let them ruin your life.

>> The only choice I made besides becoming a NORMAL model (and being forced into the adult industry by a pimp who tricked me) was to stay in the Industry for an additional 2-3 months so I could eat and have a place to stay while I tried to figure out what I was going to do to recover my life. I haven't let anything ruin my life. My life now is better than it ever was. When I finally spoke to my family they understood what happend and are now supportive of me and going back to school.

 

[RisiSimms]

Best wishes little lady.

Here's hoping your efforts keep someone else from having to endure such an ordeal.

It isn't easy to fight a vertical battle.

 

[RisiSimms]

All the best to you Risi.... a bit of advice. I know you wanted to comment, any maybe one comment without all the back and forth would have been better FOR YOU then what this has become.

At this point, this would not be a 13 page thread with over 9000+ views (as of this writing) It would be yet another thread of a person giving a BJ. I know it will never be that for you, but at this point it would be 5 pages back and not #1 on the link list.

Read my comments here. I am supportive of you and defend you. A few days back I challenged the others who were being nasty.... "give her the benefit of the doubt... Imagine if this was YOUR sister."

the purpose of this is the hope that their will be some exposure. I want people to read. So good I am glad people are reading. Now let's hope it sinks in.

 

[dreamer20]

All the best to you Risi.... a bit of advice. I know you wanted to comment, any maybe one comment without all the back and forth would have been better FOR YOU then what this has become.
At this point, this would not be a 13 page thread with over 9000+ views (as of this writing) It would be yet another thread of a person giving a BJ. I know it will never be that for you, but at this point it would be 5 pages back and not #1 on the link list.

In other words no comment and staying anonymous would have been best if one had wanted this thread to drift into oblivion with the numerous other such threads. Hindsight is 20/20, but this thread hopefully served as a catharsis for you Simms.