How very sad for both of you. You were shocked and he was crushed. What an unfortunate set of circumstances.Once I was working on a film crew and I was pretty friendly with just about everyone...late one night, one of the guys came up to me and leaned his whole body against mine & laid his head on my shoulder...it was an extreme violation of personal space & i was kinda surprised & confused...i forget exactly what i said (something to the effect of "what are you doing?") but i guess i freaked him out because he moved away & never tried anything like that again...
Which two heads are rubbing?A straight friend of mine in his 20s not only hugs me when he sees me (which I don't think is homoerotic in the least), but rubs the side of his head against the side of my head, about the same way that cats do it against my hand....
BONER ALERTYou're funny :biggrin1: but I get your point too. Maybe the word homoerotic is too strong, but many of the posts here seem to strike the right tone.
Most are just so sweet!
A long time ago my straight neighbour and gym partner (huge weightlifter) used to kiss me on the back of the neck sometimes, come into my bedroom and strip off the covers to wake me up for gym ( I sleep naked ) and the most surprising thing was one really hot day while we were working out in a friend's garage gym, he suddenly grabbed the back of my head in his big hand and, lifting his other arm above his head, buried my face deep in his sweaty armpit. I was shocked, and said something like WTF! He laughed, and so did I - "Wow, that smells so strong! But I like it when it's fresh, not like stale sweat." He said "Yeah, me too!" His sweat was rich and spicy, not foul, perhaps because he was a vegetarian and very healthy. I wiped my hand across my face which was dripping wet. It was a very strange, intimate moment. We didn't talk about it again, but we remained friends for some time after that.
I agree with youI know Gecko doesn't need me or anyone to come to his defense but figured it wouldn't hurt to give my opinion. I think your post is unfair. Based his past posts I have never found Gecko to be homophobic or intolerant in any way. Even he above post with shin you take issue states nothing that might be construed as homophobic. In his inimitable style he merely says he does not swing that way. He makes no judgment on gays or homosexual sex. Though I am not gay, I would be surprised if many of the gay member would disagree with my assessment.
WoofersWell if you want to talk Australian football players ...
Dave Taylor, tough guy or mr nice guy?
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You just told us…I have a straight Hispanic friend (who knows I'm gay) has had me take pics of him for his FB page and to email to his girlfriend. He has also let me take sexy pics of him (clothed) b/c he knows I'm attracted to him. And finally, he has sent me naked pics of himself under the promise of never telling anyone.
I was working out at the gym when an attractive, muscular guy came in and used the Stairmaster right in front of me. I was fascinated with the way his butt moved in his tight shorts. When I finished I went to the locker room and the hot tub, then was dressing when he came in, stripped, and went to the shower. Before I knew it he was standing almost out of the shower (where only I could see him) sudsing up and stroking his cock. (I must not have hidden my interest in him very well.) I watched but didn't go back in. I did leave my e-mail address on his water bottle. That evening I got an invitation from him. It turns out he is a personal trainer and over 30 years younger than I. Some of the rest is a bit too personal, but I was thrilled to be the object of the attention of such a gorgeous stud.