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A few weeks ago a buddy and I went to the mall, we both picked out some clothes to try on and headed towards the dressing rooms.. the man who worked there opened up two rooms right next to eachother. As he walked away my buddy just walked in right behind me into mine (we have a pretty close relationship but nothing has ever happened in the past sexually) as i was trying on my jeans my boxers where hanging from the back.. my buddy reached from behind and tucked them in for me. i could feel his cold fingers on my butt and when he pulled his hand out he had a little smile on his face.
 
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I was at the library and was in some intense study mod when my younger cousin who goes to the same university saw me and came up behind me and said I look all stressed out (I was, big genetics exam coming up) anyway he starts to rub my shoulders and it was like the most awesome feeling, I can not really explain it. It was not sexual per se but it was like so intense and intimate in its own way that I would not have resisted a further advance and I am pretty damn strait (even tho I list 1% gay lol). Anyway he like did it for several minutes and I was like in heaven, I have had massages before but this was different, I can not really explain it, its not like I was sexually aroused, in fact I was super relaxed and like in a hypnotic state as he did it. There were a few other people around but I did not care, it was like heaven! lol

Anyway he is one of those people that has a charismatic aura about him that I have noticed before. But that combined with his "touch" put me in a hypnotic like state that he could have controlled if he wanted to. No wonder chicks fall for him left and right I bet he can bring them to orgasm by doing that lol.

It was a nice thing and I sleep really good that night!
 

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Earlier this month my straight trainer/good friend was helping me do squats with heavy weights. On my last set he encouraged me to finish and said...I'll help you...and he stepped up behind very close. I could feel his pecs...his full chest and stomach tightly pressed up on my back. If we were naked you'd think he'd be doing me from behind...LOL (and no...I could not feel his bulge or I didn't notice since I was too concentrated on the heavy weight). When we finished and put the bar back, I turned around and noticed a some guys in the gym looking at us. It was cool knowing that he feels comfortable enough with me to have our bodies that close. When we chat together, there is usually lots of contact...hands on the back, etc.

Same friend: he is also gives massages. He gave me my first massage just a bit ago. I didn't go nude (in undies), but he did give me a thorough glutes massage. He pulled up my underwear to expose the ass cheeks. He pretty much touched every inch of my body except obviously my crotch area. I didn't get hard but I did have a big precum spot on my underwear. He obviously saw it, but didn't comment on it. I guess he now knows that I'm a big precummer.

Now another friend that lives in Sweden...not really homoerotic, but sort of falls in this category. We email each other a lot. He is straight and he has chatted to me about this girl he is dating. On his emails he has used lines like 'hey handsome'. He also always closes his emails with 'love and miss you xxx' and once he used 'love you more'. It caught me off guard at the beginning, but I guess he is just that type of guy that is not affraid of expressing himself or showing emotions. Its pretty cool...who doesn't liking hearing 'i love you'...haha
 

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Had this buddy that used to get drunk & kiss a male schoolfriend at parties. He was about 20 at the time but married now.

On my last set he encouraged me to finish and said...I'll help you...and he stepped up behind very close.
Saw this female personal trainer helping a male client, she was way up close giving him "hands-on attention" , if a guy did that he'd get slapped in the face!
 
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A very close friend of mine moved away a while back. He was visiting town again and stopped by with a friend of his. After chilling for a while I told him he could spend the night at my place. When his friend left I was going to the kitchen and he randomly approached me midway, gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug and said it's so nice seeing you again, I missed you.
Not homoerotic in my book, but others may think so.
We had a beautiful friendship that included watching porn and jacking off together.
ps I suspect he's on this site but I can't confirm.

Awwwwwe, that's sweet. :smile:
 

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When I was in high school, I had a crush on my best friend. At one point during senior year, we were at a school function where we we had to wear ties. My knot was a little too loose and a little too low. He gently squeezed the knot and pulled it up snug and straightened my tie. It lasted not much longer than an instant, but I remember so clearly the sensation of him standing so close to me, face-to-face.
 

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That is, I think, a PERFECT example of what the OP (and myself) seem to find fascinating - and very touching. Thank you!

When I was in high school, I had a crush on my best friend. At one point during senior year, we were at a school function where we we had to wear ties. My knot was a little too loose and a little too low. He gently squeezed the knot and pulled it up snug and straightened my tie. It lasted not much longer than an instant, but I remember so clearly the sensation of him standing so close to me, face-to-face.
 

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When I was in high school, I had a crush on my best friend. At one point during senior year, we were at a school function where we we had to wear ties. My knot was a little too loose and a little too low. He gently squeezed the knot and pulled it up snug and straightened my tie. It lasted not much longer than an instant, but I remember so clearly the sensation of him standing so close to me, face-to-face.

I think this is so sweet. I wish I could have been your friend in high school.
 

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one of my colleagues kept on leaning on me while I was sited, so he was basically rubbing his dick on my back, this happened twice I think, other times he'd also touch my shoulders, smile... this went on for awhile, then it stopped, I usually don't like when people I don't know well get too close but I liked it, he's definitely into guys, I saw him naked in the locker room twice, he has an amazing ass but his dick isn't very impressive, maybe he's a grower but he isn't above average.
 
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My best friend let me kiss his chick right in front of him I thought it was hot because he was watching

I did this once. I was in a hot tub with this guy and his girlfriend. They were currently dating but the girl and I had a bit of a history. He knew it and didn't seem to have a problem with it.

As always, alcohol had a role in things. At first we were just relaxing. Then the idea of taking our bathing suits off came up. So that happened. We came to the point of where it was obvious we were all feeling a little amorous and the other guy starts talking about how his girl and I used to date. What started off as a bit awkward ended up with him goading us to make out in front of him.

I'm an accommodating guy so I went for it. We started making out pretty heavy. Hands started moving. I slipped a digit past the goalie at some point. She made these little noises. He seemed to enjoy the show. I just saw his arm moving but never anything below the surface. Once we stopped making out, she got really shy. Things petered out quickly. Wasn't awkward, though, surprisingly.

Those two eventually married. Happy Ending!
 

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Other than my best buddy sucking me off last night, I can't think of anything. ;-)

You're funny :biggrin1: but I get your point too. Maybe the word homoerotic is too strong, but many of the posts here seem to strike the right tone.

Most are just so sweet!

A long time ago my straight neighbour and gym partner (huge weightlifter) used to kiss me on the back of the neck sometimes, come into my bedroom and strip off the covers to wake me up for gym ( I sleep naked ) and the most surprising thing was one really hot day while we were working out in a friend's garage gym, he suddenly grabbed the back of my head in his big hand and, lifting his other arm above his head, buried my face deep in his sweaty armpit. I was shocked, and said something like WTF! He laughed, and so did I - "Wow, that smells so strong! But I like it when it's fresh, not like stale sweat." He said "Yeah, me too!" His sweat was rich and spicy, not foul, perhaps because he was a vegetarian and very healthy. I wiped my hand across my face which was dripping wet. It was a very strange, intimate moment. We didn't talk about it again, but we remained friends for some time after that.
 

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... he starts to rub my shoulders and it was like the most awesome feeling, I can not really explain it. It was not sexual per se but it was like so intense and intimate in its own way that I would not have resisted a further advance and I am pretty damn strait (even tho I list 1% gay lol). Anyway he like did it for several minutes and I was like in heaven, I have had massages before but this was different, I can not really explain it, its not like I was sexually aroused, in fact I was super relaxed and like in a hypnotic state as he did it. There were a few other people around but I did not care, it was like heaven! lol

Anyway he is one of those people that has a charismatic aura about him that I have noticed before. But that combined with his "touch" put me in a hypnotic like state that he could have controlled if he wanted to ...

I had a college roommate who was on the wrestling team. As I was sitting at my desk in the dorm room, studying for an upcoming exam, he used to come-up behind me and massage my neck and shoulders. I understand exactly what you meant by "I can not really explain it, its not like I was sexually aroused, in fact I was super relaxed and like in a hypnotic state as he did it" ... felt strangely exciting, having another guy touch me like that - and REALLY good! He was also a very charismatic little guy that I've never forgotten. I often think back to those days and wonder if anything further might have happened. Who knows? :biggrin1:
 

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You're funny :biggrin1: but I get your point too. Maybe the word homoerotic is too strong, but many of the posts here seem to strike the right tone.

Most are just so sweet!

A long time ago my straight neighbour and gym partner (huge weightlifter) used to kiss me on the back of the neck sometimes, come into my bedroom and strip off the covers to wake me up for gym ( I sleep naked ) and the most surprising thing was one really hot day while we were working out in a friend's garage gym, he suddenly grabbed the back of my head in his big hand and, lifting his other arm above his head, buried my face deep in his sweaty armpit. I was shocked, and said something like WTF! He laughed, and so did I - "Wow, that smells so strong! But I like it when it's fresh, not like stale sweat." He said "Yeah, me too!" His sweat was rich and spicy, not foul, perhaps because he was a vegetarian and very healthy. I wiped my hand across my face which was dripping wet. It was a very strange, intimate moment. We didn't talk about it again, but we remained friends for some time after that.


I think this thread is a little weird in that it presupposes that guys are homophobic in that we have to be convoluted in how we express our feelings for one another. I guess I'm not in favor of "it's such a subtle gesture, I didn't even notice it". I'm all for homoeroticism that is open and playful with no shame attached to it. It's also a lot more fun, sexy and interesting.
 
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Friend of mine who I've never been 100% sure about (Coulda sworn he tried to kiss me once, yet he gets more tail than me) and our social circle jokingly refer to gangbangs or orgies as a "group effort"

he's leaving for overseas study and at a going-away party a few of us, mildly inebriated get into a group hug. he grabs my junk and says 'group effort'. cue laughter
 

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One of my friends always gives me a kiss on the lips. It makes me laugh because it always feels like he initiates this and I would feel awkward doing this to him on my own. He will also hug me deeply. This would also be the guy that announced if he were gay we would be partners long ago already. I think this is great and a compliment but of course it assumes that I have no choice in the manner...that I must be pining away and would have no say in the matter. He just got married and of course...haven't heard much from his ass since.
 

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I think this thread is a little weird in that it presupposes that guys are homophobic in that we have to be convoluted in how we express our feelings for one another. I guess I'm not in favor of "it's such a subtle gesture, I didn't even notice it". I'm all for homoeroticism that is open and playful with no shame attached to it. It's also a lot more fun, sexy and interesting.

Your right about that. My friendship with this guy was mostly playful but got convoluted towards the end. You said the key word, "no shame", unfortunately shame does interfer sometimes. It would be great if it didn't.
 
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4 nites ago I was out with a friend who considers himself str8 and I consider him str8. We've known each other about 2 years, we used to work in the same place. He knows I'm gay and is very comfortable with me. He has never done anything with a guy, and has only dated and been attracted to women, and has a gf. Well after he had 6 or 7 rum and cokes he got very flirty. He wound up licking my neck and face which i thought was hilarious. Then he hinted that he was drunk enough to kiss me, but I said no, I didn't want to take advantage of him. He made big puckered up kissy lips and I laughed again. Then he wound up patting my crotch at one point! Later after we left and were heading to a diner, I said "so are u ready for our big kiss?" He said "sure!" I drove us to the diner ( i only had 1 drink) and after I parked, we kissed several times. No tongues, just very sensual lip action. I'm sure this will happen again....
 
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