homoerotic behavior

[nicnic]

Yea a friend of mine pissed out the door of the tent without even going outside when he thought I was asleep. Too bad I'm no into him that way, but it is fun. I also rigged up an outdoor shower; it's fun to be bareass outside with just a tarp blocking people's view and have that be okay.

I did that...pissing out the back of the tent. I also once went out hiking a little way from the campsite and stripped naked in the middle of the night. Amazing feeling with the wind on my bare ass and dangling balls. But i was super shy and didn't bring anybody with me.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I had to help a heavily intoxicated friend take a piss who was sitting in the passenger seat of my car. We had gone to a party and I had to be the designated driver so I told him he couldn't drive and we would get his car the next day so I had to take him home. At some point he asked me to pull over because he needed to pee but he couldn't even get out of the car without someone helping him. I pulled over on the side of the road and ended up rushing out of the driver's side to get to him before he pissed on himself in my car. I opened the door, propped him up by having him hold onto the car and car door and I unzipped his pants and pulled his dick out and aimed it at the ground. It was the oddest thing that I've ever had to do. To hold another man's dick and then shake him once he was done. The next day once he was sober he didn't even remember and we laughed about it. He thanked me for going out of my way to help him.

In high school I worked in the Mens department and we had to monitor the fitting rooms. I had to help a few men try on clothes because the women refused to help. Elderly men and disabled men often needed help removing their clothes so it wasn't a big deal to me. I do remember one man on crutches who needed help getting his pants off. He said the easiest way for him to get his pants off is for me to undo his pants and pull them down for him while he balanced on his crutches and then just put the other pants on the floor for him to step into and then I pull the pants up. With me being in the front of him I had to be very close to his crotch twice. He said I was the first person that didn't make him feel shitty about his situation when it came to trying on pants. If I hadn't helped him it would have took him 3 times as long just to get into one pair of pants.

 

[Chrysippus]

I had to help a heavily intoxicated friend take a piss who was sitting in the passenger seat of my car. We had gone to a party and I had to be the designated driver so I told him he couldn't drive and we would get his car the next day so I had to take him home. At some point he asked me to pull over because he needed to pee but he couldn't even get out of the car without someone helping him. I pulled over on the side of the road and ended up rushing out of the driver's side to get to him before he pissed on himself in my car. I opened the door, propped him up by having him hold onto the car and car door and I unzipped his pants and pulled his dick out and aimed it at the ground. It was the oddest thing that I've ever had to do. To hold another man's dick and then shake him once he was done. The next day once he was sober he didn't even remember and we laughed about it. He thanked me for going out of my way to help him.

In high school I worked in the Mens department and we had to monitor the fitting rooms. I had to help a few men try on clothes because the women refused to help. Elderly men and disabled men often needed help removing their clothes so it wasn't a big deal to me. I do remember one man on crutches who needed help getting his pants off. He said the easiest way for him to get his pants off is for me to undo his pants and pull them down for him while he balanced on his crutches and then just put the other pants on the floor for him to step into and then I pull the pants up. With me being in the front of him I had to be very close to his crotch twice. He said I was the first person that didn't make him feel shitty about his situation when it came to trying on pants. If I hadn't helped him it would have took him 3 times as long just to get into one pair of pants.

How in hell is this erotic? In several instances, you helped out men. That’s it, nothing more. Nada. Zip. Bupkus.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

How in hell is this erotic? In several instances, you helped out men. That’s it, nothing more. Nada. Zip. Bupkus.

I found it highly erotic because the drunk man was straight and there were multiple times that I helped guys in the fitting rooms and they would start to get boners. Who are you to determine what is homoerotic? You don't like then stfu and move on.

 

[kurt bishop]

Yea a friend of mine pissed out the door of the tent without even going outside when he thought I was asleep. Too bad I'm no into him that way, but it is fun. I also rigged up an outdoor shower; it's fun to be bareass outside with just a tarp blocking people's view and have that be okay.

LOLOL I grew up on my uncles farm.
He rigged up 4 showers on the outside of the barn. The showers faced the back corn field. ( about 15 feet away)
After we we would work the field we would all shower there goof off an toss a wet nerf football around.

You pups know what a nerf football is........ LOLOL its not a video game you actually have to go outside to play it! lolol

 

[Jake1973]

LOLOL I grew up on my uncles farm.
He rigged up 4 showers on the outside of the barn. The showers faced the back corn field. ( about 15 feet away)
After we we would work the field we would all shower there goof off an toss a wet nerf football around.

You pups know what a nerf football is........ LOLOL its not a video game you actually have to go outside to play it! lolol

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

 

[nicnic]

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

I remember at one camp they had a cinder block shower house with no roof. A bunch of guys would cream in and shower together under the open sky.

 

[Jake1973]

You pups know what a nerf football is........ LOLOL its not a video game you actually have to go outside to play it!

Where do you put the batteries?

 

[kurt bishop]

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

ABSOLUTELY
I was camping one time the showers were out doors
took my beer in with me -- SHOWER BEER YEAH!

it was really difficult NOT TO get hard

 

[nburbsbiguy]

I love outdoor showers. If you are doing yard work or playing sports or whatever and come home dirty and sweaty there is nothing like it.

The house where we spend the summer has an outdoor shower. I use it every day. Not when it's below 50 or raining too hard, but if it is a light rain I will bring a towel in a plastic bag and still go in. It's enclosed, but on a private side of the house next to the laundry so I strip down inside and walk to the shower buck nekkid. Here's a pic of me in the shower.

 

[teddybaerli1]

A very close friend of mine moved away a while back. He was visiting town again and stopped by with a friend of his. After chilling for a while I told him he could spend the night at my place. When his friend left I was going to the kitchen and he randomly approached me midway, gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug and said it's so nice seeing you again, I missed you.
Not homoerotic in my book, but others may think so.
We had a beautiful friendship that included watching porn and jacking off together.
ps I suspect he's on this site but I can't confirm.

That's a very lovely report, sweet!

 

[bosceltic]

Brian - Super reporting job!

It’s just hard to imagine how long this guy has been wondering about things and wrestling with the image he has of himself. It is almost like he is the only guy he has ever known, and is just discovering there are others like him.

It is like seeing a caterpillar transforming into a butterfly. On a bigger scale it causes me to wonder how many other guys there are out there who are going through life with so many unanswered questions about their own nature.

You make the call about moving this adventure to its own discussion topic. It shouldn’t take more than a couple of good sentences in a new thread to move the adventure forward.

Seems to me the next meeting should include trading full-body massages.

Or if the next meeting is to include J, then Aaron may find it interesting to see you guys demonstrate some “activities” for him. …. But there I go scripting again.

Looking at other mammals as a reference bisexuality is much more common than people think. Even just genuine curiosity is probably even more common. What a repressed world we live in.

 

[622675]

Looking at other mammals as a reference bisexuality is much more common than people think. Even just genuine curiosity is probably even more common. What a repressed world we live in.

There are two kinds of people in the world. There are those who ask questions and discover new things. And there are those who would rather be told what to think and spend their energy justifying that process.

Regrettably, it is not often that the latter group ever changes in to seekers.

And it is regrettable that we all have our blind spots.

**One of my favorite concept pictures from the late grate TV program “Grim”

 

[nicnic]

At the gym the other day, there were two straight muscle bros working out together. At some point, one invited the other to feel his arm after an intense set. This led to some feeling and comparing between them, pretty quick and not sexualized. Just assessing each other's gains.

 

[Chrysippus]

At the gym the other day, there were two straight muscle bros working out together. At some point, one invited the other to feel his arm after an intense set. This led to some feeling and comparing between them, pretty quick and not sexualized. Just assessing each other's gains.

Then how is this ‘homoerotic’?

 

[nicnic]

Then how is this ‘homoerotic’?

Homoeroticism is different from overt homosexual behavior. Obviously, homosexually includes homoeroticism. But homoerotic behavior also happens between straight men who don't desire sex with each other. Ass slaps in sports, etc.

 

[Chrysippus]

Homoeroticism is different from overt homosexual behavior. Obviously, homosexually includes homoeroticism. But homoerotic behavior also happens between straight men who don't desire sex with each other. Ass slaps in sports, etc.

Oh yeah, right... I hugged and kissed my dad and slapped my brothers’ asses, but it sure wasn’t homoerotic. Have another piece of imaginary pie.

 

[kurt bishop]

At the gym the other day, there were two straight muscle bros working out together. At some point, one invited the other to feel his arm after an intense set. This led to some feeling and comparing between them, pretty quick and not sexualized. Just assessing each other's gains.

The actions of what the guys were doing may not be “erotic” to you or “homoerotic”.

Eroticism rests inside the mind of the observer.
I find naked guys talking in a locker room erotic, homoerotic because it’s two males.

Many other guys view a locker room as a place to piss and change clothes after a work out.

 

[Brightonwankbuddy]

Sometimes I'll say something about taking my shirt off because I'm hot, and he'll say he doesn't care if I walk around naked.

Just jerk off with him already!!

 

[NHwrestling87]

a group of three guys came into the sauna the other day, straight as far as I could tell. The guy with the best body sat with his towel gaping open, I had a great view of his cock sitting across from him, his friends couldn't see it though. I went out to get some water and when I came back in he had taken the towel completely off and was just leaning against the wall with his legs spread out, full view of everything, his friends were a little uncomfortable but it was hot, I could see them checking him out....maybe they were even a little envious at his confidence? either way I was rock hard watching it all go down