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hm, well i certainly agree that these might be issues that LGBT community doesn't address, and I do agree that the experience of living a homosexual life is different than a heterosexual life (and I'd even suspect living a bisexual life is different from a heterosexual life), and some gay men would like to pretend that difference doesn't exist.Sorry, I was at busy. My point is that sex comes with cultural baggage attached. So does sexual identity. For example, I doubt that a homosexual male that experience conversion therapy would experience a negative emotion when a supposedly gay male sleeps with a female. He will feel that it's just confirming the belief that being gay is a choice or feelings of his own inadequacy.
Right now, there a bunch of homosexuals on Twitter that are policing Onlyfan creators because of the trauma that they experience. That's not healthy behavior .
However, it points to a set of issues that the LGBT community failed to address as a whole. Due to the nature of reality and society, homosexuals will never be equal to heterosexuals. Since it was never address, it could lead to more frustrated people.
I don't really see how this supports the idea that sex is about power and not about pleasure. If there's baggage, that baggage is a secondary layer thrown over the core of what sex is. It doesn't imply that sex is about anything other than pleasure, it just implies that there's things in our society that inhibits the pleasurable act that sex is originally meant to be.