- NoH8,
Your story was very interesting, NoH8. Thank you for offering it.
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I can imagine how homophobia might be a less severe problem among attractive men.
Such people are, I'm assuming, approached more often by men or women who have a sexual interest.
They probably therefore have more practice in sorting out those that interest them from those that don't. If true, they would tend to have less anxiety in dealing with unwanted attention. They would also wield more 'power,' in the smaccomian sense*, which would also tend to reduce their feeling of vulnerability.
So homophobia could serve as a psychic defence at a lower level of charge.
(I'm just offering these as semi-plausible notions that have popped into mind. Not sure what I'll think of them tomorrow morning.)
Well, there you go.
Can't resist one question, for the sake of research: Was he good looking?:tongue:
* Smaccomian sense: Informed by too much reading of Foucault, a term inspired by the writing of the precocious and inveterate young American sexologist Smaccoms, currently doing research in New England.
:biggrin1:LOL! Wasn't this board meant to be about big cocks? You are too clever by half! But I'm so glad we're on the same page. I like sharing that page with you... absolutely agree with your words above and particularly about power and anxiety.
There were a series of 12 gay murders in my state where the killers hid the dismembered bodies in barrels in a disused bank vault. The recent film about the case is called Snowtown. It's chilling and shocking how powerful these killers felt. How righteous and free of doubt they were. They operated with their gaydar sensitivity turned up to maximum so that they could choose their victims. Their accomplices were men who had been raped and abused by friends and family members. It was seriously disturbing to watch. Some serial killers have so much [perverted] sexual power they think they come from God.
About the priest, yes he was very good looking. All the church ladies agreed. That's why I went to him for counselling in the first place. I was hoping he'd offer to take my virginity! Too bad, he was too deep in the closet at the time.:frown1: