I have a friend who told me he was homophobic recently, i'm okay with people making jokes about races and homosexuals as long as they aren't serious. but this guy is serious and now i'm thinking alot of my friends are actually racists and homophobes. Which i cant stand since i think racists and homophobes are ignorant and i cant stand having ignorant friends. so i'm planning to find out how serious they are about their jokes and if they are then im burning bridges. Has the same thing happened to anyone else?