JoeBfstplk
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Crazy question! If you add testosterone to what a gay guy already has, you'll just get a hornier gay guy - and whether is top or bottom doesn't even enter into that equation.
I think it's certainly worth the effort. Proving that it's biological would end a lot of religious debate and accusations of it being a "lifestyle" choice. I didn't choose to be gay(not that I'm saying it'd be a bad choice to make even if it was only a choice), I simply always was... and looking back throughout my life it's abundantly evident in my psycho-sexual development.
At the same time, if they ever fully figured out the reasons behind homosexuality, the possible repercussions of that are incredibly terrifying. The idea of scientists, doctors, and anyone else for that matter deciding to turn off a gay gene in-utero or even before conception is just plain scary. Especially if it was such a wide practice so as to essentially eliminate all homosexuality in subsequent generations... which would essentially equate to mass genocide, minus the violence. However that could make for a very good fictional sci-fi thriller.
::gets out paper and pen::
There are studies that were done on this subject maybe 40 years ago because it was a "nagging" question. In the study a number of gay males were given injectable testosterone. Not one of them changed orientation or behavior in ANY manner when this was done. Some had increased libido, some grew body hair, none became "straight by injection". Among this test group were of course effeminite men. None of them became more masculine in mannerism because of the injections they were receiving. This is an old "war horse" that simply refuses to die and is based on ideas and theories dating back to the 1930's
1) Yes. Even Oscar Wilde, who was tall and had a large frame, forced himself into that behavior because he thought it was the thing to do. It's less and less common as time goes on.
2) The gay guys you see that are effeminate, you know are gay. The gay guys you see that AREN'T effeminate -- police officers, fireman, construction workers, marines, truck drivers, etc. you don't realize are gay. So your sample is biased in that you are more likely to notice a man is gay if he is effeminate. If he is very masculine, you never question if he is gay. (Not just you, but society in general including, yes, many gays).
Not all effeminate guys are gay!
I'm not a behavioral psychologist, so I don't really know how to answer that.
I was a sissy as a boy who grew into an outwardly masculine male in adolescence. I wasn't conforming to any stereotypes as a child, I was just being myself. I did revert to much more stereotypically butch mannerisms after puberty in order to try and fit in better (not that it helped that much: I was never a popular kid in school).
Effeminate boys go through life as outcasts and are seen as undesirable. I can't imagine why anyone would actively choose to behave that way, least of all a child. If there was any choice at all in how I behaved, it was trying to avoid punishment by my parents and to be more socially acceptable to my peers, and that's when I butched it up.
This is very true. I guess it also makes it more obvious that a man is gay if he puts on the effeminate charades. Where I live, there's lots of that going on because people are very proud of their community.
To me, all little boys are effeminate! How can a boy not look effeminate with such a soft face and a high-pitched voice?
I've also heard about this! Learned about it in biology class, that the hypothalamus is indeed different in gay males, but that it isn't always the reason. To be frank I don't think it's worth the effort of so many brilliant minds to try to understand something that's so complex and that is perfectly fine. It's not like it's a cancer and there needs to be a cure!
good point, but i would say that even non effeminate gay adolescents feel like an outcast and "dont belong". So when these guys move into the gay enclaves, where they see many others having effeminate mannerisms, of course a good proportion will try to emulate - who doesnt want to belong after all.
When they do express themselves like this, is it a bad thing? Of course not. In most cases, it is not who these guys being wtruly are, but hey, at least they are in a position, where they can start some personal growth, finally learning to love who they are?
I detest this focus on fem and masculinity becuase underlying the discussion is pure discrimination.
To me, all little boys are effeminate! How can a boy not look effeminate with such a soft face and a high-pitched voice?
No, other studies have found the complete opposite.
The implicit message is that homosexuality is less masculine than heterosexuality: bullshit.
What is truly amazing is that when homosexual males are given testosterone injections, they suddenly become straight!![]()