Homosexuality as an orientation...

[malakos]

Also, the mods have appeared to have de facto granted dispensation to answer in one of these forums that most corresponds to one's sexuality even if you put "No Response", so long as is it clear which one of the 3 it is and one sticks to that one. I've had "No Response" up for a while, but the mods have me down, so when I occasionally accidentally post in the others my posts do get deleted.

 

[SSS79]

I hate to see anyone's comments, especially if it's relevant and doesn't contain any "offenses" to be deleted; I know there are rules and terms and they are there for a reason, and if no harm is done, I'd like to see the mods overlook some comments and just keep them, no body should report or get angry as long as the comment itself is just an appropriate response to the topic discussed.
At least this is my position!
And i have a question here, if I want to post a thread that discusses a topic related to both straight and gay men, where should I post it? can I post the same question in 2 different forums?

 

[malakos]

I hate to see anyone's comments, especially if it's relevant and doesn't contain any "offenses" to be deleted; I know there are rules and terms and they are there for a reason, and if no harm is done, I'd like to see the mods overlook some comments and just keep them, no body should report or get angry as long as the comment itself is just an appropriate response to the topic discussed.
At least this is my position!

I agree. It'd be nice if the policy were (assuming it isn't already...) that the mods only consider deleting a misplaced post if it has been reported.

And i have a question here, if I want to post a thread that discusses a topic related to both straight and gay men, where should I post it? can I post the same question in 2 different forums?

Crossposting is sort of a faux pas. Especially if whom it's done unnecessarily. If you are wanting to ask a question to men across orientations, there is a forum simply called "Ask a Man".

 

[alcor972]

malakos... you changed your signature from a muslim guy saying that hell were populated mostly with women... to a cicero's quotation...
I prefer cicero's words... they are less dramatic and more encouraging...
I think that malakos must be very interested in european antiquity and middle age philosophy and possibly litterature... but by philosophy to a higher degree though...