Here's what has worked for me--
--I lift 4 times a week. I do cardio for one hour after each session. I spin once per week.
--I keep a food log. It makes me think twice before I ingest something bad knowing i have to write it down and then share it with my PT.
--I love a good salad. I am most careful with dressings as many are calorie/fat dense.
--I watch my carbs more than my fat, which i also pay attention to. Raspberry vinaigrette, yum!
--If I eat potatoes, no butter, no cheese, just a little black pepper.
--I use mustard or salsa on almost everything in place of mayo.
--I might cheat once/twice a week. Sometimes I don't feel like it. But i give myself that option. With no guilt.
Consistency has been paramount to my success, whether I was bulking up or in the slim down phase. I rarely miss a workout or cardio session. Best wishes to you an finding what's best to accomplish your goals.