after average i mean....isnt after 6-6.5 it starts hitting the girls cervix, and isnt that painful? I thought most girls want multiple organisms out of sex shit i can do taht without my penis:tongue: . I've only had sex one time and seriously this girl i was with well lets just say she's been around i could barely stick it all in and i'm only average. I mean seriously what is it about size ladies plz explain....does bigger mean better plz be honest:smile:
Honestly why does penis size matter?
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depends, of course, on the girl, the guy, the penis in question, the vagina being used to accommodate said penis, and the particulars of each specific encounter (lube, arousal, foreplay, technique). Of course bigger isn't always better, but sometimes it can be.DJC19 said:
Incidentally, most women list their ideal penis at around 7-8", so you're probably just fine at 6.5.
not always. I like the bashing. a lot of girls don't.DJC19 said:
I've come multiple times with average guys. however I come HARDER, more often, for much longer, and much easier with my above-average hub.DJC19 said:
she wasn't wet enough.DJC19 said:
for some women it has nothing to do with size and everything to do with skill. for me and other women who think of themselves as size queens, the size of the tool has a real and immediate impact on the quality and quantity of sensation and orgasm.DJC19 said:
so in short... it depends. each woman is as different as each man. work on all of your sexual skills, penetrative and otherwise, and you will find the girl for you.
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Don't it just cums down to physics? Like Scotty says.. "I kent chanj da laws of feesiks, captain, she's got a wee bit large vagina, capt!!!!'
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I think the answer to this question is simply, that it does matter. Some like them large, and some like them small, but either case the size of a penis makes a big difference to the ladies, whether they like to admit it or not. And your challenge is find which women likes you, and your penis too.
And the situation of many women is not that they are big...its bcause we make lots of natural lubrication when turned on..and things get very wet and sliding with small average penises than we lose fricctions...even a big guy will feel us very wet and we slide good with fricctions ..fricctions are very good to feel for sure...and for this motive it must be a good girth for women build like me.
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I wouldn't say that bigger is necessarily better in every case but i do believe size is very important, not vital but very important. I think it's important for both the guy and the girl. Most "bigger" size guy's tend to be more confident in my opinion when it comes to sex and confidence is huge. As far as the girl goes most all of the nerve endings involving the vagina are at the entrance not inside so the friction caused by a thicker cock creates a great deal of stimulation similiar to that of oral sex. So yes size does matter, but so does technique, patience, foreplay and numerous other things.
yeah it matters ... if it didn't, there would no LPSG ... I don't want to live in a world with no LPSG ... 
this fact often gets misconstrued, so let me clarify... most of the "surface touch" nerves are at the entrance of the vaginal canal. but there is definitely still sensation all the way up, mostly tied in to (go figure) pressure, which is why a feeling of fullness -- allll the way up -- is so important to some women.Alecia19 said:
also the bashing. did we talk about bashing? I can always talk about bashing. need to feel him knocking my guts around. yum.
I agree with most of what sares said however most woman do not orgasm through intercourse it comes through oral sex. It happens most often when a guy uses his tongue to stimulate the outter portion of the vagina and clit. However i do agree that having that feeling of being "filled up" is absolutely mind-blowing,lol.
It matters because porn 'stars' say it matters. It matters because the local whore says it matters. It matters because YOU say it matters.
The average, well-to-do, nice girl has only sampled <10 penises (let's say) so she has more than likely not had anything that much bigger (if at all) than average. Women are happy with that. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. Big cocks however, may hurt some of the few women that experience them.
Cocks that are about the same size as every other man's on the planet will generally not hurt a girl. Girls don't like pain, they like pleasure. And shoes.
The point is men make more of a deal out of it than women. If it doesn't matter to you, it won't matter to her. If she makes a deal out of it, then who needs someone like that?
NB: I also think some women (maybe all/the majority) can TELL when/if a guy is insecure about his penis...I mean it probably shows in some non-verbal way...then its bad for both of you.
Just be happy you have a cock that works. Also be glad that you don't have a bachulum (I think thats it) - a bone in your penis! It keeps you hard yes, but too much fucking and it SNAPS and you never get hard again. It only applies to polar bears and few other animals...
The average, well-to-do, nice girl has only sampled <10 penises (let's say) so she has more than likely not had anything that much bigger (if at all) than average. Women are happy with that. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. Big cocks however, may hurt some of the few women that experience them.
Cocks that are about the same size as every other man's on the planet will generally not hurt a girl. Girls don't like pain, they like pleasure. And shoes.
The point is men make more of a deal out of it than women. If it doesn't matter to you, it won't matter to her. If she makes a deal out of it, then who needs someone like that?
NB: I also think some women (maybe all/the majority) can TELL when/if a guy is insecure about his penis...I mean it probably shows in some non-verbal way...then its bad for both of you.
Just be happy you have a cock that works. Also be glad that you don't have a bachulum (I think thats it) - a bone in your penis! It keeps you hard yes, but too much fucking and it SNAPS and you never get hard again. It only applies to polar bears and few other animals...
In my opinion, my size IS the reason for my assurance in these parts of the physical act of love, among other things...Alecia19 said:
I can't just pull a girl's pants off and start thrusting away. I did that once before and paid the price for it... so I now know it's a recipe for disater. I have to go slow at first, be patient and slowly build her up to taking me within her. I know I haven't been with a lot of girls, but I've flirted with many, talked with many, and I sometimes get this impression that they perceive the big dicked guys to be good lovers - I feel that it is my duty, no, my purpose, to hold up that idea for them :tongue:
My size was the reason I initially went online to learn every single foreplay technique I could, and when I do things I'm not happy unless I know I'm the best at them (drives me nuts when I know I've made a mistake). My tongue, my fingers, they're every bit as important as my endowment, and have been taught their purpose accordingly. And now, I know that between my oral skills and my girth, I can drive the right woman wild... gives me, a guy who's normally quite shy and reserved, a lot of confidence in the bedroom. This fact always took my last gf by surprise. She let me learn everything I know with/on her body - and by the end she used to refer to my penis as Mr. Hyde :biggrin1:. Quiet and unassuming outside, anything but inside...
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Why even post that URL? Seriously.
DJC, Every woman is different. I used to accomodate 10x6. Now, I masturbate so much with small dildos (4.5 x 4, for example) or with my fingers, I kegel like crazy, and I can feel my vagina chaning in boith size and shape. Last night, a girl I banged a few years back (who apparently still thinks about it) celebrated her birthday, and earlier in the week she asked for a shag. She implied that I should bring this guy I once introduced to her. They had already had sex at least once since they met. He's my primary bed buddy, and he's 7-7.5 x 5. I can usually get him in with minimal effort now, as long as there's foreplay. But the toy the girl and I bought 5 years ago when I was still with my huge ex? Good luck. She got three inches of it in me, and I was ready to quit. It hurt terribly, even after 90 minutes of play, and I was surprised when I grabbed it and found out how little of it I was using: I'd felt pressure much deeper in that three inches.
Some women do not like to have their cervix touched. Most, I'd bet. However, the area around the cervix is sensitive, and below the cervix, there is room. in fact, if you can get your penis below the cervix, and then behind it, you can find an extremely sensitive, and pleasurable zone. There are women, myself included who are very orgasmic with enough attention to this spot: the cul de sac.
But for many women, myself included, size is not terribly important, as long as a partner is knowledgable, or willing to learn. Vaginas have lots of, if not most of, their sensitivity in and near the entry. Tons of women are not even vaginally orgasmic, and are most interested in what you are going to do to their clitorises- what's plural for clitoris? Whatever. If you're worried, do a little research.
I realise now that I shouldn't have mentioned that website, although written in white at the bottom of my post I warned "that site is bullshit"BronxBombshell said:
It seems that DJC19 is quite insecure about his size so I apologise for mentioning that site which is designed to make people feel even more insecure - even bigger than average guys.
http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/29930-traitor-to-the-size-queens.html
This link is more useful for dealing with insecurities linked to size.
