Hey everyone, I've noticed that recently I've been posting a lot on this page haha, that's beyond the point. I joined a dating site a while back, it's mostly been unsucessful. I'm looking for a real relationship, and I am absolutely against hooking up just to hook up. Today though, this guy messaged me, he's really cute, seems cool. We messaged for a while, and he told me that he would love to meet up and hang out. I asked what he had in mind and he basically said that he would like to hang out, maybe get coffee, but afterwards go and make out, and he said he'd give me a BJ. Now, I'm not gonna lie, this is super tempting, especially since he doesn't live far, and I wouldn't mind getting a BJ. At the same time though, because I'm so adament about hooking up, I'm wondering if it's not fair that I'm not willing to put out for guys who I want to go on legitimate dates with on the first night. Also, I'm a little worried just about the hooking up thing, cuz I've never done it. We kinda talked about meeting on Monday, and I'm not sure if I should go through with it. Any advice would be great. I think I know what I want, would like to do, and what I really want, I think I just need help finalizing my thoughts on it. Thanks!