1. penandpencil

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    This question goes to all the gay/bi guys on this forum:
    Well, it turns out that for one reason or another, I am still in the closet. I don't know why, but I guess that I am not ready to come out yet (sorry, I also hate the verb "to come out"). How do you closeted gay/bi dudes meet other gay/bi guys besides the internet? It seems to me that due to my current position , I am limited just to online "dating". Thanks.
     
  2. red7.5

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    If you're not "out" I assume you mean no gay bars, church groups like the UUA and others have, or anything that is explicitly gay. The only things that come to mind quickly are places like rest stops and glory holes and maybe print personal ads. I'm guessing those will be ruled out. Maybe there is some underground thing, I really have no idea.

    My last bf didn't "come out" until he was 36. He just turned 51 and we remain close. He regrets coming out so late in life only a little, he's having way more fun now.

    I hope you find someone man.
     
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