This question goes to all the gay/bi guys on this forum: Well, it turns out that for one reason or another, I am still in the closet. I don't know why, but I guess that I am not ready to come out yet (sorry, I also hate the verb "to come out"). How do you closeted gay/bi dudes meet other gay/bi guys besides the internet? It seems to me that due to my current position , I am limited just to online "dating". Thanks.