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A married man hit me up on Reddit after I posted something on the Ask Gay Bros subreddit. We sent a few chats there now we're talking on Kik. He says he is bi-curious and just looking for sex, nothing more. I'm a virgin and he's never done anything with a man before. I'm 18, he's 36. His wife doesn't no and he doesn't plan on telling her. Should I sleep with him? I've only seen a picture of his face and he's pretty attractive, and honestly the thought of someone local being interested in me really turns me on.


What do you guys think?
 
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You say you're 18, but you've been here over a year.

So you're either lying now, or lied when you joined LPSG.

Goodbye!
You act like people don't lie about their age on websites all the time. Teens of varying ages lie on porn sites and etc. Plus, I'm almost 19. I never posted a picture of myself on here so it's not like I posted child pornography. I'm an 18 year old, first year college student.
 
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You act like people don't lie about their age on websites all the time. Teens of varying ages lie on porn sites and etc. Plus, I'm almost 19. I never posted a picture of myself on here so it's not like I posted child pornography. I'm an 18 year old, first year college student.
You have to be 18 to join LPSG - whether you posted a photo or not.

I'm well aware that people lie about their age on porn sites. That doesn't make it right.

You lied and now you got caught. Suck it up.
 

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You have to be 18 to join LPSG - whether you posted a photo or not.

I'm well aware that people lie about their age on porn sites. That doesn't make it right.

You lied and now you got caught. Suck it up.
I don't see what my age when signing up has to do with my current situation. And "you got caught" lmao you think I actually care if you "caught" me. I couldn't give less shits. If you're not going to contribute to this conversation then kindly fuck off.
 

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Assuming this is a genuine question, I'm a bit confused. You say this guy is married, but is willing to cheat on his wife because you're so irresistible? And this really excites you? Why?

Are you excited by the notion that he thinks so little of himself, his wife and his vows that he is willing break them to have a quickie with the virgin he met online? Perhaps you're excited by the idea that you might contract a nifty STD from someone who, let's face it, has most likely done this before? And since he's on the down-low, probably doesn't use protection, because, hey, he's straight and married... so he's safe, right?

Why would you want to trust, especially your first time, to someone who has told you, first thing, that he is a liar of little to no integrity? Do you think so little of yourself? Do you think you deserve no better?

If this is a question in earnest... no, you most certainly should not have sex with him. If you have any moral character, or self-respect, you should tell him to not contact you again. And then maybe do some self- reflection, and find out why you would consider stooping so low.

If, on the other hand, this is a troll to get your jollies...'oooh, a "married" man wants to tap my "virgin" ass, whatever should I do?' Then by all means, pork your metaphorical brains out.
 
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Assuming this is a genuine question, I'm a bit confused. You say this guy is married, but is willing to cheat on his wife because you're so irresistible? And this really excites you? Why?

Are you excited by the notion that he thinks so little of himself, his wife and his vows that he is willing break them to have a quickie with the virgin he met online? Perhaps you're excited by the idea that you might contract a nifty STD from someone who, let's face it, has most likely done this before? And since he's on the down-low, probably doesn't use protection, because, hey, he's straight and married... so he's safe, right?

Why would you want to trust, especially your first time, to someone who has told you, first thing, that he is a liar of little to no integrity? Do you think so little of yourself? Do you think you deserve no better?

If this is a question in earnest... no, you most certainly should not have sex with him. If you have any moral character, or self-respect, you should tell him to not contact you again. And then maybe do some self- reflection, and find out why you would consider stooping so low.

If, on the other hand, this is a troll to get your jollies...'oooh, a "married" man wants to tap my "virgin" ass, whatever should I do?' Then by all means, pork your metaphorical brains out.
Wonderful answer! I couldn't have said it better.
 

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A married man hit me up on Reddit after I posted something on the Ask Gay Bros subreddit. We sent a few chats there now we're talking on Kik. He says he is bi-curious and just looking for sex, nothing more. I'm a virgin and he's never done anything with a man before. I'm 18, he's 36. His wife doesn't no and he doesn't plan on telling her. Should I sleep with him? I've only seen a picture of his face and he's pretty attractive, and honestly the thought of someone local being interested in me really turns me on.


What do you guys think?
Married men are a huge fantasy for me but only a fantasy
Had my fairshare of Bi married men come on to me but I know better than to act on it think of his family
 

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@Marcbow I decided not to go through with it
Good for you. I'm glad we could help. Now go find someone available in real life (as opposed to online) who's into you. He's out there. You deserve that, especially for your first time.
 

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I answer your question speaking as a guy in the sex industry that has taken care of a lot of married guys: it's just sex. It is the fault of an overbearing Xian society that sex is practically taboo unless it is with your married spouse. As long as you don't become attached or expect anything more than just blowing a load or two, it is fine. I know there are people on here that are going to melt down because the wife isn't getting told but that's the brakes when you live in a society that forces you into a cookie cutter heterosexual life with no meaningful outlet to explore or sexually interact with other males. On the flip side I've been with guys whose wives knew and didn't care as long as it was sex with another guy. In fact, on several occasions I had lunch with the husband and the wife.

As you are young just starting to explore sex play I caution you now to learn the difference between Lust and Love. In spite of 2,000 years of church dogma treating sex and love as the same; they are not. Great sexual chemistry and a great fuck does not mean you will be compatible in a relationship. Play responsibly, get tested regularly, consider PrEP if you are going to be like me and play frequently.