FIrst of all, i'm not judging anyone on any way i describe them it is just my way of clarify things. Lately, i've hooked up with two guys a little old than myself and I honestly felt no pleasure whatsoever. i wasn't attracted to neither of them but i wanted head so i went through with it just for the hell of it. honestly, i didn't feel any pleasure nor did i feel any different than when i walked in. actually i was thinking about what i was going to cook for dinner! i don't know why i didn't feel anything maybe wasn't it because i was attracted to them. I don't know if i should just quit hooking up for the time being until i find someone physically attracted to, or just stop all in general. I hope i wasn't just rambling, kind of was contemplating the whole situation and need some input.