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I'm gay and 100% non-judgemental of race, orientation, identity, and the sexual interests of other people. I'm a very laid back guy and tolerant of other's sexual choices in bed, and I used to DJ at gay clubs and private parties so nothing shocks me at all. In fact, I've probably seen it all, and my friends are usually appalled at stories of things I've seen and participated in. After 5 years of not dating and taking care of my elderly parents, I recently and reluctantly decided join Grindr and a few other apps I hadn't used in many years to find gay and bi guys to meet and explore friendship more than sexual encounters. I'm typically interested in average men in the average looks department that has similar social interests. I'm not a size queen and usually top if it comes to anal sex so I'm usually satisfied with average-sized dicks, but I sexually prefer a rugged man's man or someone who isn't obviously queer acting. Personality and the their ability to have long stamina means a great deal to me since I'm slightly hyper sexual and enjoy sex with a boyfriend or partner more than once a day. I'm well aware that most of the apps are going to be full of cum-hungry sluts, so I joined the apps anyway and started looking around. Of course, 99% of my taps, growls, and smiles are from Bi and married guys on the DL only looking for quickies and RIGHT THIS MINUTE because they don't have much time. What I didn't expect was to find so many fem/sissy boys and many, many bisexual and "straight" guys only interested in trans/fem/sissy hookups. In fact, Grindr in my area is at least 60% femme with guys of all types and shapes in panties, bras, skirts, and so on. While these guys do not interest me sexually, I feel my dating absence and lack of gay/bi/queer social interaction for the past few years have led me to miss some kind of sexual awakening.
As I said, I'm fine with other's sexual interests, but I'm very curious to know when being femme or sissy become the sexual norm on gay dating apps? Even today I've had two different chats and both wanted to know if I would wear their wife's/girlfriend's panties or they weren't interested in chatting further, and one of the guys was a buff gym rat and told me he wears a woman's girdle daily to feel sexy. Do Bi guys think if a guy wears women's clothing that they aren't having sex with men? I mean femmes and sissy's still have dicks, so I truly am confused and looking for honest, heartfelt conversation here.
As I said, I'm fine with other's sexual interests, but I'm very curious to know when being femme or sissy become the sexual norm on gay dating apps? Even today I've had two different chats and both wanted to know if I would wear their wife's/girlfriend's panties or they weren't interested in chatting further, and one of the guys was a buff gym rat and told me he wears a woman's girdle daily to feel sexy. Do Bi guys think if a guy wears women's clothing that they aren't having sex with men? I mean femmes and sissy's still have dicks, so I truly am confused and looking for honest, heartfelt conversation here.