And to humour you all, I will describe my first hookup. Also
@Mr. LPSG let me know if it's fine to like sorta diary entry my (ongoing) experiences here in this sort of thread, or if that has to be a personal blog. I may do both if that's allowed. I can also spoiler perhaps if that can be done.
Hookup #1
Asian guy, about 51. He lived 25 minutes away by car but i needed to use public transport, say 1 hr 10 minutes. Quite a big dong. That said not as big as it looked from the photo he had (I think that is across the board lol, matter of perspective), but still maybe 1.5-2 inches longer than mine and certainly a nice cock.
I hooked up having previously turned him down citing just lack of available time.l though that dick was enticing. I had just lost my job and he took a day off work. Perfect. I was intent to just madly hookup as recompense for the bad news. He told me he usually played with Caucasian older guys (40s ish) but I was his second Asian land and very young at that.
First thing he took me to the bathroom and said do what I need to freshen up. After that i got lead into his bedroom. He lived in a single bedroom unit so it was small but the bed could occupy two. He had me tuck in and then cuddled me. Had his hands around my back and chest. We rolled over to kiss. Unfortunately because if inexperience this felt awkward. I have not even kissed girls, so I wasn't entirely sure how to proceed. Will get better, I'm sure. After maybe 25 seconds of lip to lip I explored kissing other parts of his body, primarily neck and upper arm. After that he felt under my shirt and kissed my belly. At this point I took my shirt off and pants.
He grabbed my cock and I grabbed his. This was a very interesting experience to have your cock in another guy's hand and vice versa.
It gets better. He started to caress my body while I was lying flat on my back. I shivered actually not expecting how sensitive my body was. Almost ticklish. As a neuroscientist it was easy to understand - when we touch ourselves, the brain has an override on how intense it is perceived since the brain knows it is part of our own body. This is why when you stand you don't exactly feel your feet. But when something foreign contacts, that is not suppressed, at least initially. So almost overwhelmed just by getting touched, not on my cock but just my tummy. Then he kissed and played with my nipples. I arched my back at this, even more intense than the touching. Nipples just light up, definitely fantastic so mucglh that I could only gasp and emit a moan while trying hard not to shake.
Then we started cock sucking. First i laid down as before and he was on his knees and put it in his mouth, slowly he worked down to the base. I started to shake again, that felt great. In between he would pulse rhythmically pressure wise to give sensation of suction up and down. I then sat up after 1.5 minutes to hold his cock in my hand and gently sucked the glans. Then gradually took the rest. I was surprised how thick cocks are in your mouth. Bananas make poor oral substitutes hehe. It just filled my mouth and I pushed it deeper. Didn't gag, I think I managed to get 90% of it down. I alternated between licking the head and shaft and gripping with the lips. Also took the balls gently in my mouth. What i enjoyed about the sucking was the hardness of the cock and the shape of the glans running along it. Also precum tasted lightly salty, which was nice. I complimented him there.
We then moved to vertical 69, him over me. I loved that part. Getting and giving at the same time. After a few minutes we both knelt and started rubbing our cocks together. This part feels good in theory but not as "hot" as I might have expected. Still ok, we embraced for a bit. Then I had him lie down on his back and sat on top of him and fed his mouth my cock in and out with my hips. I liked that very much, great way to feel the pressure changes on your cock.
I then had my front body facedown on the bed and let him feel me a bit, before we resumed 69 but this time me on top going down. I worked very hard at it, while he sucked me below and then fingered my ass a bit, not deeply but felt nice. As I sucked he started to moan harder and harder. He would stop intermittently. I told him he could cum in my mouth if he liked. I kept going down on him and interspersed this with jerking him. He told me he was going to cum. Ten seconds later he did, his hips arched forward and I saw the shaft expand and eventually his semen start to aggregate. I let some drip out from my mouth to confirm SBS watched a last sliver emerge from his urethra which I licked up.
I then opened my mouth to show him his load and he said I could go to the bathroom if I wanted. I told him all good and swallowed it. Precum tastes better I must say, probably not as alkaline.
I didn't let him make me cum because I was intent on saving it for another appointment later but that didn't quite happen. Nevertheless a few hours later I continued to feel the sensation like my dick had been sucked. I then put on my clothes and thanked him, hoping I did ok, which he acknowledged. He then teased that i was certainly gay, gayer than him and shouldn't keep women and others in the dark. I had intended to go dating a woman but held back because i did want to experience m2m.
Altogether it was an interesting experience. Some take homes:
- Kissing needs work from my end.
- I wasn't entirely attracted to him which made me a bit inhibited. I think this is a key factor to enjoyment, you need to like the guy physically.
- a newbie can be extremely sensitive to light touch.
- play with the nipples! Nipples!
- Guy was very gentle and respectful. While he initiated a lot of things, he also allowed me to take control too.
- manoeuvring round the bed can be awkward. I was almost afraid to fall on top of him or sit on him awkwardly, yet sex involves bodies piling on and rocking over each other. Will need to learn how to navigate the sex twister. Never once did I feel him "sit" or put his body weight over me.
- Sex is very physical. Yeah I started getting a little tired both physically and mentally. We just had 35 minutes with no rimming or anal but I felt I needed a break so goodthing we finished there.
- oral is nice but it does take some time to reach climax. I sucked him for 10 mins at the end before he erupted.
- last three points really makes me amazed at couples who do this seamlessly and gay porn actors. It's harder than it looks at first sight. We didn't touch anal sex either.
Overall I rate my first time 6.5/10. Chemistry just wasn't there but it was a hookup with a much older guy, not particularly attractive but ok, and I hadn't much talked with him prior. It may be better to be able to know your hookup partner a tad more, break the ice. The touching and nipple stuff was the highlight, secondarily to the mutual blowjobs. While his big cock did not necessarily feel great in my mouth, hearing the guy moan and heave then contract his balls to but was a turn on. Sadly my back was facing him so I didn't see his facial reaction. Good cue to observe how the receiver is feeling.
Also learnt you can't just do sex. I mean you can but there is a degree of seriousness we often take for granted. It will help me understand my boundaries and needs, not just hop on board with any odd bloke.
This experience will help me with hookup #2 planned tomorrow morning.