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  1. relix

    relix New Member

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    Ok so I'm a complete kissless virgin to both sexes at 21. I'm pretty asexual, not desiring sex at all. Recently I have found myself looking only at anal gay porn most of the time. I think I have a fetish/curiosity to bottom and yet have no real attraction to males, though I prefer people that look like myself (girls too), nor a desire to do anything but bottom. Because of this now I've been frequently trying to hook up with someone, but being far too picky and scared to go through with anything. Should I try to do this?
     
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    By all means, you should go ahead and try it.

    Have someone fuck you gently with a condom.. worst case you'll find you don't really enjoy it. Best case you'll enjoy it and become great bottom. :)
     
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    you say you really have no desire for sex
    have you been to the doctor?
    have your T levels checked?
     
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    i am same i dont have much desire for sex , m 18 maybe it stress of college or uni i dont know been like it since 15
     
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    I am 66 and just lost my lover of 35 years to Parkinson´s disease. For the last ten years of our relationship I had no sex at all. That's ten years without a single cock up my ready and willing ass. And I miss it so much. Now that he is gone, I was hoping to find someone to fuck me real good with a big cock. Unfortunately, I live on a ranch in the wilds of Michoacán, Mexico's most beautiful (and reputedly most dangerous) state. But I haven´t give up hope.
     
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    It might be worth investigating whether your lack of desire for sex is because of fear and anxiety about sex. There may very well be something hormonal going on, but it may also be purely psychological. It's easy to be wound up and fearful at 21 (lord knows I was), so don't sweat it -- just go easy on yourself...and maybe get opinions from a doctor and a psychologist before you start doing anything too drastic :)
     
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    It is the fear and anxiety mostly. I have seen doctors, I have double depression supposedly so that all but destroys the libido.
     
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    Yeah man...you don't need to rush into having sex. You need to treat the fear and anxiety, and the libido will come back.
     
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    Yeah, obviously he has a hormone imbalance.. I mean, anyone who has no desire for sex OBVIOUSLY has a problem!
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    Don't let anyone tell you what you are or aren't.
    Save your virginity for your first love, you'll be glad you did. TRUST ME! I let my desire get to me and I regret all of it.
     
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